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pregnant 100% of the time?


Question Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 1:39 am

I know the theory is that if you have sex without birth control and he cums in you, you're pregnant.


But does this really happen ALL the time?
Can you have sex without getting pregnant?

Even if it IS a small chance, I just wanna know.
And dont tell me "dont have sex", I dont plan on it, I'm just wondering.


I'm sick of people preaching about sex on here.

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GalPalNessa answered Thursday June 21 2007, 10:17 pm:
haha! its not true that if you have sex without birth control you'll be pregnant for sure. It is highly possible, specially since sperm can live inside you for like 5 days.... but there is still a very small chance that you might not get pregnant. By telling you that you'll be pregnant for sure, is just a way to scare you so that you wont have sex whatsoever...
and as for preaching about sex ...people who say "don't have sex" are just full of it! you know they do it! and love it! hey, its a great way of exercise and relief! just have to use protection, and you're set to go! =)

hope this helped =)

VB

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nonamecat answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 2:55 pm:
Science has pretty much gotten us past pregnancy being a theory and actually being a fact. However, for you to actually be pregnant an egg has to be present and the sperm has to make it to the egg. Women do not have an egg present at all times of the month, and sperm are not always successful in their journey to the egg. A woman's most fertile days are just before ovulation. Ovulation is the release of a mature egg from the ovary during the menstrual cycle. For most women ovulation occurs 14 days before the next menstrual period. The short answer is, yes, you can have sex without getting pregnant. However, you still risk contracting STIs.

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 11:23 am:
No, no, no. It doesn't mean that you have unprotected sex once, and then 'boom', you're automatically pregnant.
However, EVERY TIME you have unprotected sex, you are at a high risk of becoming pregnant, as well as getting an STD.
I wouldn't categorize it as a "small chance", but "high risk".

I know I preach about sex and pregnancy because I know exactly what pregnancy and babies are like, and most teens aren't prepared for such a huge responsibility. (I know I wouldn't have been at that age.) They think they are, but they have no clue.

There are teen girls out there who have babies, the baby's dad doesn't help support them, and their parents end up taking on most of the cost and duty because of their lack of responsibility and want for going out and living their lives. (Not all teens are that way, but there are quite a few out there that are.)

How fair is that for a child who never asked to be here?
How fair is that for the grandparents to feel they should have to support and raise their grandchild, who they should enjoy, and make cookies for on weekends?

It's not. At all.

That's why a smart teen takes measures to avoid pregnancy. They aren't just looking out for themselves.
That's why people like me preach about it. :)

ygs-29/f

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heyimcaro answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 10:18 am:
that "theory" isn't a theory-- that IS how you get pregnant. butttttt...

sometimes the sperm can't reach the ovaries, where it is needed to fertilize the egg to get the female pregnant, obviously. that is why some couples are incapable of having children- the sperm can't reach it.

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kaydence answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 6:36 am:
It's not gaurenteed that you woll get pregnant, i think alot of what they teach you is to scare the hell out of you so that you dont do it.

Dont just do it tho because you think your home free, I did it awhile without getting pregnant with my x.

But when my husband and I started dating the first time we did it without anything, I was pregnant.

If your going to do it without protection just be ready to handle the situation...

Hope i was of some help.

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orphans answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 4:13 am:
It's never a "sure" thing that you will get pregnant. One of my teachers explained it to me this way. When a guy's sperm shoots inside of you, you're body is actually trying to stop the sperm from reaching your ovaries. Just because you have sex, you won't always get pregnant, but it is still risky.

My boyfriend could probably explain better, I probably forgot a few details. But I hope I helped.

=)

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