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soo me and my bf have only been going out for a little more than week. we've made out and yeah i like him but when we made out i just didnt feel any chemistry. does that mean i dont rlly have strong feelings for him? i dont even think i really like him that much. should i break up with him or wait and see what happens? i wanna try to go for a month but idk if i should even bother. please give me the best advice you can. thank youu guys<3
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I suggest you do try and wait it out a month.
When i first made-out with my boyfriend. I was like
"...uh."
But y'know, the more you get to know someone the chemistry comes.
You might not even know him that well, give it time, you'll find more things attractive in him.
I did, and I am madly in love with my boy now, we've been together almost a year.
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A week is a little soon for a major make-out session. It may just be that you just aren't ready for all that!
You may want to take the time to really get to know him first. Tell him things are moving to fast and you want to slow down and get to know him first. If he really cares, he will understand. :)
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its all up to you and if you think about it try to balance things out what you like about him and what you dont like about him if you find far more likes than dislikes maybe it's time to move on but if you find things seem to even out than give it the month and see how you feel hope this helps,y-vet
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If you like him, give him a chance. But if you're just staying with him to see if you "grow into" liking him, don't lead him on like that. Break it off before he becomes too attached, because you'll hurt him more by waiting awhile.
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That would be unfair to dump him just because of making out problems. You probably don't have much chemistry because you've only been dating a week. It would be fair to give him a chance & get to know him a bit more. Hang out a bit more often & see where it goes. You'd feel really stupid if you just broke up & then you realized that you do like him. Maybe you just need to spice things up? If you really feel that you don't want to date him/don't like him, let him know right away. It would be unfair to keep him in a relationship when you're just going to dump him. Basically you just need to sort your feelings out & talk to him about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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