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why i couldnt stop crying?
okay today was last day of school and the last time im gonna see my close friend cause she is moving to korea tommorow.And then when the class ended i tried to hold my tears but i burst up crying but she didnt see it yet so she asked me to take a picture with her and she saw me crying and she was trying to cheer me up by saying "its okay" but i told her"its not okay your leaving" and she got quite and she stayed there for like 5 minutes because i was still crying but next thing you know she said'im going now dont cry okay?" and she turned back and went somewhere. and after that i cant stop crying for 3 hours and im not kidding what do you think about this? and why do you think she left when i was crying?
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I think that she was just as confused as you were. She didn't know what to do about it because the situation is probably painful for her too. Plus she probably had to say goodbye to others that she knew. It is a very natural reaction to cry when someone you love is leaving- we all have or will experience that. I hope that things can work out. And don't think that she doesn't care for you. I'm sure she does. I don't know why she left you, only she does-ask her.It will help both of you. Contact really helps to ease the pain of someone leaving.
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I think it's alright for you to be upset. She's a close [best] friend to you & you love her. It's gonna be really hard for you to let her go to Korea. Although there is nothing you can do to stop her from going, it's still going to hurt.
My reasoning for why she walked away would probably be that she didn't want to start crying. She probably wanted to end her last day with you on a happy note rather than a sad one. I'm sure she feels the same amount of pain but chooses not to show it.
It's alright to cry, so don't hold back. Just keep in touch as much as possible whether it be through email, letters, IM or phone & maybe see if she can visit during her summers there.
I'm sorry about this, and I hope you feel better. =)
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considering she is going so far away, it's no wonder you're so upset. things are going to be different and even if it isn't a good different, you will adjust with some time. my guess as to why she left when you were crying is because the idea that she is leaving makes her upset too and she doesn't want to see other people upset about it too. as you can imagine she has probably already cried about it a lot and wants to remember you as being happy. keep your head up and keep a smile on your face!
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