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uh oh.
Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday when he put the condom on it kept coming off like it was too tight and does anyone know a bigger condom?? Because we tried it 3 different times and each condom came off!! What should I do?!
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If it is truly too tight, then yes there is a larger size called Magnum.
But I can't quite gather how it would keep slipping off due to being too tight- it seems it would do that if it were too big. If it were too tight it would be harder to get on and off.
What should you do? Make sure he is using a proper fitting condom, and make sure he is putting it on correctly. Yah, it may seem embarrassing, but you need to swallow that because such matters are of great concern to you- not only with the possibility of getting pregnant, but with the fact of all the nasty STDs out there.
So if the weight of all of this has to fall on your shoulders, then by all means, bear all the weight. It is for your own protection.
Put the condom on yourself, if you have to. (Practice putting it on a banana first, like we used to back in sex education, so that you know that YOU are doing it correctly.) You may feel silly, but don't. He will probably find it less of a hassle to stop and put it on and more arousing if YOU are the one doing it, since it requires touching... ;)
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If the condom keeps coming off, it's not too tight -- it's too big! You don't need a bigger condom. Your boyfriend shouldn't be so conceited with his size & get the wrong condom. He should get the right size, so have him go a size down.
And stop having sex if the condom isn't being used properly. Not only is it the wrong size, but it's stupid to have sex with a condom that keeps falling off. If it falls off once, what in the hell makes you think it won't do it again? Take it as a sign to get smaller condoms..
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Two things concern me. #1: You guys should not be having sex if you can't get the condom to work properly. That's like driving a car that doesn't have any breaks. It's dangerous and stupid. #2: Many guys, especially young ones, will come up with any excuse to get out of having to wear a condom during sex. The condom being too small is one of the oldest tricks in the book. They make condoms large enough to fit porn stars. I highly doubt that he's so large that he can't find a condom that fits.
For the safety of YOUR health, I'd strongly urge you to educate yourself about the risks of STDs and the precautions you can take to prevent yourself from getting them. Most STDs are life-long diseases that won't ever go away. They can make you severely sick and some can even kill you. A guy who can't even work a piece of latex doesn't seem to be worth the risk. Also, don't forget the burdens of an unwanted pregnancy. Do yourself and the world a favor and make this guy wear a condom.
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