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The first day of summer starts Wednesday for where I live, and my boyfriend and I are hanging out that day. I think it would be cool if we had sex for the first time (for both of us) that day, kind of as a first day of summer first time celebration, since we've been together since last summer. We've talked about it before but we decided to wait till we're ready, but I'm not really sure how to bring it up again, what should I say? Do you think he'll be willing? Any advice will be appriciated. Thanks! (link)
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i'm sure he would be willing. if you feel ready enough to take that step with him, then just bring it up casually in a convorsation. don't be shy.
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I am on birth control. He used a condom. But we did it a different way than we usually do and after he cummed and pulled out, the condom was still inside of me. It didn't break. And I know there's the possibility that some might have leaked out the top but I don't know. I'm looking into getting the morning-after pill. Any other suggestions? (link)
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if you're on the pill, you're fine. that shit worksss!
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i had sex for the first time 2 nights ago and to my surprise, i didnt bleed at all. im not positive if i had broken my hymen before from sports... is it possible if we have sex again it could break then? (maybe i just got around it somehow?) and also this morning i noticed discharge that was a light red (i know it's not my period) is this normal? (link)
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it's very possible that the hymen had already previously been broken/torn or whatevvv - either, tampons or like you said from sports. you most likely won't bleed the 2nd time. but if you say you had the light red discharge, that's normal, i had that too, i consider that the hymen, or the "popped cherry"
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Say I have ..scratch that, I DO have a really big butt. If I do excercizes that firm up my butt, will they firm up my BIG butt? Or will my butt lose weight FIRST, so it becomes smaller, and THEN become firm?
Thanks in advance (link)
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do squats. firms & doesn't shrink the bootaayy ;)
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i like a guy who is 17..and i'm 14. he will turn 18 3 days before i turn 15..is it like not illegal with parents permission (link)
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it's legal to date - but nooo sex.
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I'm 14/f. Okkk, I am in love with this boy. He's nice, he's cute, and he's smart. This is hard to say but, he likes another girl but he likes me at the sametime. It's confusing! So I sent him an e-mail telling him how I feel. He hasn't responded and I know that he got it. It's been 5 days and I've been waiting for an answer. I don't exactly know what to do next. I don't know if I should instant message him and tell him to reply, even though I wrote in the e-mail a million times to respond. I have no idea what to do! Im in love with him, please help me!!! (link)
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you're 14. you don't need love from a young, immature boy right now. you're going to deal with idiot boys for the rest of your life; dont rush the stress. oh, and i hope you didn't just flat out say "i love you" in the e-mail, because that tends to scare immature boys. i know i'm gunna sound like a parent right now but im 16 & i knowwww what i'm talking about -- concentrate on YOURSELF. do your school, your chores at home & what-not. make yourself a strong motivated person. build character. then all the boys will really have something to chase after :)
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Well my best freind she doesnt like this guy named jeff but she always wants to have a friends with benefit relationship with him. HES A TOTAL JERK. He is soo mean to her and treats her like crpap doesnt talk to her for ever and then asks to hoookup. Well, idk what to do anymore cuz she doesnt listen to me wen i tell her not to do this and she will regret it. And wen i say this guys a jerk he bad mouths her to the school and all she cares about it making out. (link)
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that's her problem, not yours. quite frankly, if she wants to be a skank then that's her peroggative. you can't change people; you can give her advice, but it's up to her if she wants the reputation of a whore or not.
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How can you overcome the nerves to giving head...
haha in simple terms... HELP ME NOT BE NERVOUS. =)
no lectures please. (link)
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if you're nervous, then you're nervous. it's no big deal, honestly. i think everyone & their mothersss do it :X but if you don't think you're ready now, then just wait .. don't rush into things, because if you do it once- you'll do it again & that particularly opens the door to OTHER things.
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okay well I've worn tampons before & could never feel them.
but today I put one in to go swimming & I feel it a little when I sit or move my legs certain ways.
it's not.. painful.. it's just a weird feeling.
I tried to push it in a little more with my fingers but it wouldn't go any more.
should I just ignore it?
or should I pull it out & try again? because again, it's not painful, & I'm afraid it would be painful if I pulled it out before it'd been in at least a few hours. (link)
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i hate that! you just put it in wrong. take it out & try again:)
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Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday when he put the condom on it kept coming off like it was too tight and does anyone know a bigger condom?? Because we tried it 3 different times and each condom came off!! What should I do?! (link)
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trojannn maaann !
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i really like this boy and i know for a fact he likes me too. the thing is i get really insecure when he flirts with me. he'll try to hug me or hold my hand and i just feel stupid because my friends are looking at me. i REALLY like this boy and i don't want to miss out on a good thing. honestly, i've rejected him so many times that i'm lucky he's still interested. how can get overmy inhibitions and admit to my friends (and him) that i actually like him? (link)
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don't be shy; if you like the boy - then that's it. you like him. let the whole world know, who caresss - enjoy yourself & if he likes you too, then that's even better:)
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When my boyfriend fingers me, sometimes after awhile i tend to moan. lol && afterwords my boyfriend likes to annoy me, perhaps the next day or so and tries to copy the moaning sounds i make. It's kinda annoying haha. so girls do you also moan when being touched there? (link)
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ahhh boys will be boys. i'm sure he's only kidding arounddd he obviously doesn't mind the noise if he still does it - but if him immitating you really irritates you, just tell him to knock it off! that's what i tell my boyfriend:)
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the background: about 6 months ago my boyfriend kissed another girl at a party. he said he was really sorry and didnt want to lose me, so i gave him another chance. but since then he has continuted to flirt with her. whenever shes around he pretty much ignores me and acts like an idiot showing off in front of her. i've told him like a bazillion times how bad this makes me feel, and he always promises not to do it again, but he keeps doing it. i know he likes her even though he insists he doesnt.
well the other night we were at a party and he did the same thing. so i broke up with him. he cried on the phone till 3 in the morning, begging me to take him back, swearing that he doesnt like her, that he only loves me. in the last couple days hes brought me flowers, presents, sent me love songs on my phone, and posted bulletins saying how much he loves me and that he doesnt like that girl. and everytime he comes over or calls, hes crying. his friends say he hasnt slept in like 3 days.
i really really love him - weve been going out for almost 3 years and hes like my best friend. i really want to go back out with him, but im afraid if i do, he'll just keep doing the same thing. plus i dont want a boyfriend who likes someone else. but i just dont get it! it seems so obvious that he likes her, so why doesnt he just go out with her now that hes free? (she likes him and he knows it). should i take the way hes acting as a sign that he really loves me? should i take him back? or will he just keep doing the same thing? (link)
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okay, that's complicated, but i have a simple solution that you probably won't like - stay single. yes, you love him & as you say he loves you too, but you don't deserve to be cheated on or whatever the case is. if he didn't like her, or won't do it again, he wouldn't have kissed her twice. if only twice. don't necessarily "take him back" but keep in touch with him. once he grows up mentally & realizes what he had with you, he'll come to his senses. don't be the pathetic girlfriend he knows he can walk all over & then still go back to. don't be an easy target!
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ok. so i have this friend. let's call her 'L' well L and i have been friends since the beginning of 7th grade (it's june of 8th grade now) and we have always been FRIENDS like good friends not BFF but good friends, and like, last year she would get mad at me and my other friend, A would tell me and i would text L and be like i'm sorry for ______ whatever A would say i did wrong & that was why L was mad at me. well like, L is currently mad at me and idk why & neither does A and like, i am kind of sick of L always being mad at me! like idk what i did wrong... should i text her & ask her what's up or just let it go? she always gets over it in like, 24 hours but still it's really really annoyingg.. (link)
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i suggest you talk to the girl, and confront her. explain how you feel about the situation.
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hello
recently i got my nose pierced (to be exact i got it done june 2nd)
but my skin arround the piercing is like peeling pretty bad.
i dont think its an infection...
my piercing feels fine
helpp =]
thanx (link)
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that happened to me! there's this cleaner called cetephil (i'm not sure if i spelled that right, but that's how it's pronounced) but if you use that, it'll get better in about a week!
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Ok so i'm going out with this amazing boy, but there's something missing we just don't talk alot or sometimes we can't hold a conversation. Then I have this bestfriend who also happens to be one of his bestfriends, but with me and him we just click. Everything seems to be right, we can talk on the phone for hours and there's never silence. I just don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but my bestfriend is also the person who hooked us up, but I can tell he likes me too. Ughh. I know this is confusing, but it there anyone who can help? (link)
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well, i would hope you're able to talk to your best friend; but that's not the point. sometimes there's tension between a girl & a boy when they're "just" friends, they can usually confuse their friendship with stronger feelings. i'm not saying that's the case, but if it is..then i'd stick with your boyfriend. but if you really don't have much to talk about - and you don't necessarily click with eachother, then it's a waste of time. but before you just break up with him, you should explain how you feel that there's lack of communication between the two of you. take it from there, and break down the issues one by one until you're happy with your situation.
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