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boyfriend or bestfriend
Ok so i'm going out with this amazing boy, but there's something missing we just don't talk alot or sometimes we can't hold a conversation. Then I have this bestfriend who also happens to be one of his bestfriends, but with me and him we just click. Everything seems to be right, we can talk on the phone for hours and there's never silence. I just don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but my bestfriend is also the person who hooked us up, but I can tell he likes me too. Ughh. I know this is confusing, but it there anyone who can help?
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Let your resort be working out things with your boyfriend. See the thing is, with your bestfriend of the opposite sex, you guys are supposed to click, thats why it is so east to talk to him. That is how my bestfriend is with me too. In all honesty, we would make almost the perfect couple....except, I go to my bestfriend with all my boy troubles and happiness. If you were to get with your best friend...who would you go to. And this sounds cliche, but its true. Friends last longer than boyfriends. Just think..making that transition might weirden up, or weaken your already perfect relationship with him. my suggestion would be to ask your bestfriend advice on how to make it work with your current boyfriend. Hearing his advice will make it clear on whether, you want to take his advice or be with him.
Good luck
And I really hope i helped
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girl go with your gut feeling.. i know a few people who were truly in love with their best friend all along just took them awhile to realize it.. the problem is if things for some reason dont work out your friendship might go down the drain as well.
for me though, my best friend is a guy and it just so happens when we talk we can talk for 8 hours straight its nuts.. my boyfriend and i ehh not so much. but hes my one and only that i always turn to. hes there for me too and he listens.. just well doesnt say much back.. and its just because he doesnt know what to say.. but when it comes to love its there. just because you guys dont talk as much as you and your best friend doesnt mean your not meant to be okay (:
good luck my dear hopefully this helped!
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trust me, you never want to go out with your best friend, im talking from experience....it just gets weird and it can ruin yur guyses relationship with one rong move. all the years you guys have been friends would be gone. if you have a best friend, thats were they should stay. now if you like some guy thats a different story, that leaves plenty of room to build for you two. and hell maybe the other guy is just nervous when he talks to you. yah never know...if yur absolutely positive he likes you, and yur sure u like him, but he wont ask you out; just ask for him. hope it helps.
Peace
Seanx
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well, i would hope you're able to talk to your best friend; but that's not the point. sometimes there's tension between a girl & a boy when they're "just" friends, they can usually confuse their friendship with stronger feelings. i'm not saying that's the case, but if it is..then i'd stick with your boyfriend. but if you really don't have much to talk about - and you don't necessarily click with eachother, then it's a waste of time. but before you just break up with him, you should explain how you feel that there's lack of communication between the two of you. take it from there, and break down the issues one by one until you're happy with your situation.
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