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uhm. pissedd ? ok. so i have this friend. let's call her 'L' well L and i have been friends since the beginning of 7th grade (it's june of 8th grade now) and we have always been FRIENDS like good friends not BFF but good friends, and like, last year she would get mad at me and my other friend, A would tell me and i would text L and be like i'm sorry for ______ whatever A would say i did wrong & that was why L was mad at me. well like, L is currently mad at me and idk why & neither does A and like, i am kind of sick of L always being mad at me! like idk what i did wrong... should i text her & ask her what's up or just let it go? she always gets over it in like, 24 hours but still it's really really annoyingg..
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i suggest you talk to the girl, and confront her. explain how you feel about the situation. ]
I wouldn't text her, I would ask her to her face. See, all this text messaging and IMing each other is so impersonal. You have no certain idea as to what they are meaning when you are talking to words on a screen because it is impersonal AND expressionless.
See, things like this are always best discussed face to face, or at the very least over a phone conversation. At least then you get an idea if she is angry when she talks, or sad, irritated, happy, or sarcastic. You catch my drift.
But, really, if she is annoying and just gets mad at you all the time, (basically for the fun of it?) why are do you still even bother being friends with her? She doesn't sound as though she is that great of a friend by what you say here...
ygs-29/f ]
1st off I'd like to say that advicenators doesn't show the name of the person that posted the question , so it is ok to write the real name . It's not like we will know who they are .
WELL...
If you don't want to ruin a friendship then let her attitude go with the flow .
I mean like don't tell her that she is getting annoying .
That will make her more mad !
So just give her time and then she will get over her little hissy fit !
Hope I helped ! ]
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