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my friend is avoiding me now?
Im moving to the Korea next week and my close friend is avoiding me or we barely talk now and i dont want her to avoid me any idea why shes not talking to me that much? but when we talk sometimes she gives me a big bear hug like im leaving tommorow what is she trying to tell me?
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Your friend could be telling you diffeent things. Your moving and she could be hurt. Knowing that shes losing you and she thinks that if she talks to you too much she will break down and not able to be with other friends or people and just be downright miserable. Your friends obdviously mean alot to you. She may feel like shes never gonna see or talk to you ever again.
Just talk to her and Actually ask her "Why are you not talking to me and Im leaving next week and I dont want to leave a bad situation unfinished" Ask her and see what she says. Email me back with her answer.
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The reason that she's acting like that is because she's upset and doesn't want to deal with the fact that you're moving. It's very hard to have a close friend move away and I'm sure you know how she feels. Talk to her and explain to her that you both need to spend as much time together as you can. You'll remain good friends and that you'll keep in touch. Also tell her that pushing you away won't change the fact that you're leaving. She'll miss you and don't take her behavior too personaly. I'm sure her intentions aren't to hurt your feelings or anything. Just talk to her and confront her about the situation.
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She dosen't want to talk too much, because she dosen't want it to hurt as bad, when you leave.
She's looking at it like you could be leaving tomorrow, so she dosen't want to miss the memories of you too much, so she's not hurt when you do leave.
Talk to her, and tell her to act like you two would if you weren't leaving.
It's going to be hard, but you two can still write each other and everything, and make sure she knows that.
Make sure that she also knows she should want the last memories of you two to be ones where you're close and everything, because she will regret it, if she dosen't talk to you before you go.
XOXO
KAT!
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