me and my friend sent this realyl close guy friend of ours pictures of our vag and asses and she sent boobs too.. just for pleasure and fun i dont find it wrong but w.e but anyways idk how someone else saw them yeah i was pissed but i got over it.. but then there was a rumer that i had a funny looking vag.. like why is that this is why im self consciens of my vagina beacuse i feeel like there is something that looks abnormal or something .. help please
dia answered Thursday June 7 2007, 1:53 pm: unfortunatley, you've learnt the hard way!
lesson number one:
NEVER send personal pictures of yourself to a guy (no matter HOW close)if you want them to remain private.
he's a GUY who has REVEALING pictures of you...you think hes going to keep THAT private?
my male friend told me that..and after hearing THIS (which was similar to a situation a girl at my schoool got herself into) it seems VERY TRUE!
i hope you talked to this "really close guy friend "of yours, because that ISNT what close friends do at ALL.
oh, and make sure he didnt put them on the internet either. Because then you have bigger problems :S
anyway,
evey vagina is unique, they all look different. the only way people will think it looks "weird" is because they've seen millions of vaginas, and yours is DIFFERENT from the rest.
somehow, i doubt that they have looked at a million vaginas other than their own, unless they Googled "vagina" in order to releive them of their anxiety about their own genitalia.
this sounds harsh, but i hope you learnt your lesson :( if you have any sense, you won't do it again unless you WANT MORE people looking at you and commenting on it :S [ dia's advice column | Ask dia A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 7:56 pm: Vaginas all look different and come in different sizes, shapes and even the pigment of the skin on the genitals can look different too. There's nothing to feel embarassed about as not everyone's looks the same or like the medical diagrams. You're perfectly fine.
If i were you I would learn from this experience and never send any pictures of private parts etc. to people again as once they are out of your hands they can be sent to just about anyone.
As far as rumors go take it in stride and don't acknowledge it or show any reaction at all to guys or girls mentioning it. It will soon die out as people move on to easier targets to bully or make fun of.
If anyone approaches you about it just say "So, and so's pretty perverted their's no telling who's vagina that is or what magazine/video he took it from." Show a sense of humor about it too and like it doesn't at all bother you. But don't react.
There's no such thing as a weird or funny looking vagina. Know that and you should be able to deal with this just fine.
The other thing too that you need to know is that it's not legal at your age to send those kind of photos to someone else or recieve them in the case of someone accidentally opening them who was a child or another adult they would have a lot of explaining to do to law enforcement or others as having pictures of girl's gentials who are minors could be viewed as illegal. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
RubbaDucky answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 7:40 pm: Really there isn't an abnormal one They come in all different shapes so I'm sure every one makin rumors Havn't seen one so I'm pretty sure its not abnormal [ RubbaDucky's advice column | Ask RubbaDucky A Question ]
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