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beautifully broken
Ok so i might be a little crazy sometimes just being myself.. but does that mean i don't deserve a boyfriend? I'm 16 years old and i've never kissed a guy, gone out w/ a guy or anything.. it's not that i don't want to ... it's just that i guess the right guy hasn't come along. I've had 2 major crushes and thought for sure the last one was the ONE but.. that's a long story.. In the end im still single. What's wrong w/ me? I mean im decent looking.. i have an awesome sense of humour and have ALOT in common w/ alot of my guy friends and stuff. I don't know if just feel like a reject...
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its ok to have not had ur first kiss or first real boyfriend yet. i mean i didnt have a real by till i was 17....and didnt have a real kiss till i was 16...so its ok. its normal theres nothing to worry about. your gona be ok!!!
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Dont worry, that first kiss and all the rest will come. You can't always think its because they DONT want you. SOmetimes, its because you are so beautiful that guys are intimadated by your looks and feel theyre not good enough or they are going to be rejected by you even if that's further from the truth. Guys fear rejection too. Or they think that because youre so pretty, that you must be a snob or have a boyfriend already. At your age too, guys are still developing their game (picking up girls) when you start to get older it seems like guys start falling at your waist side. Believe me, i used to think that too. So in the meantime, be patient, and if you notice a guy checking you out, toss him a little smile to let him know your approachable and interested.
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i understand that its hard to stay single for that log seeing all your freinds with guys while you dont have one.But think of it this way,your like you said,beautiful,funny,with a great personality and alot of people like you.Being without a guy isnt gonna really make you any prettier,smarter or cooler.You WILL find your guy one day,cuz no girl stays single forever.Gods just saving you the right guy.Mabey your gonna end up having a guy better then all of your freinds,so gods not givin him to you now and testing your pateince!Stay strong man,your gonna have the best guy while everyone watches you in envy one day^_^
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well i think your just you. and don't change. there is no set time fr things to happen w/ boys so...but maybe your not taken seriously (that depends on the stuff that you do no offense) or any guy isn't ready to take you on. or maybe you should look at your preference in boys more carefully. or maybe it's the having alot in common with your guy friends. but these are just my thoughts. i hope you feel better and things change in the best way possible.
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It sounds like you're focusing on one guy too much. Open your horizons and flirt and become interested in a lot of guys so that you have options and more chances to get a boyfriend. Everyone gets a boyfriend sooner or later so just when you don't expect it.. you'll find out a guy is interested in you and vuala, you have yourself a boyfriend. Be patient, and be yourself. Everything will turn out just fine =)
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