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ok so there's this guy that i've been friends with since pretty much when he came to my school and most guys i dont feel comfortable with but with him i can be myself well i still feel a little uncomfortable like i cant be myself but for the most part i can be myself now i am kinda overweight and so i havent had much experience with guys but i kinda like this guy and i mean he has always been nice to me well that i know of and well i kinda want to stay friends but then i kinda want something more also he has gone out with alot of girls and flirts with a lot well he used now he doesnt as much so what should i do cause i wanna stay friends but then i want mroe help
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
One thing you have to ask yourself is, is you taking this thing to the next level worth your friendship? I really wouldn't rush things like serious relationships right now, because both of you are changing so much during this time in your life, and you'll change more as the years go by. It would be really awkward for both of you if you two went out for a while, but then decided to stay friends. It would never be the same. However, the fact that this gentleman has the softheartedness to look past your weight issue speaks volumes. He seems like a true friend. If you feel like you two should be more than friends, then take that chance, but I would wait a while. I hope this helped at least a little bit.:)
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Ok so you already have a good relationship with this boy so do you really want to ruin that by taking things further.
You can always ask him if he wants more from you then just your friendship especially if you feel comfortable with him.
Explain your feelings to him and see where things go from there. But then there is also the possibility of things turning sour.
Just think about what you really want before you throw it at him. Is it better to have him in your life then not at all?
But you can then do the mature thing and talk to him face to face. write him a letter or an email.
Hope I helped and good luck.
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