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band guys
I'm the only freshman, and one of 2 girls in my jazz band at school. A bunch of the guys, mostly seniors but a couple juniors, like to play around with me. I'm not really sure what it means. They come up behind me and scare me, hug me a LOT, make funny faces at me, and call me nicknames. I'm not sure if this would be flirting?? Cause I do it back just cause I don't want them to think that I think they're idiots. Which I don't- they're really cool people. They just like to be playful with me a lot. They don't do it to the other girl, but she's a junior, and she knows them better, i guess. I went with one of them to eat out today, and he was being really sweet to me, but he was being pretty mean to some of the other guys. I'm a little confused... I'm not very experienced with guys! lol
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i'd say they are flirting with you. you know how when you don't know somebody that well (and you just met them) and if they're of the opposite sex and attractive, you are pretty much immediately attracted to them simply because you haven't known them for twelve years? maybe that's kind of what they're doing. i mean, i have no doubt in my mind that they probably really like you, but that may be part of the reason they're so drawn to you. and the guy that you went out to eat with definitely likes you if he was being nice to you and mean to everybody else. by the way, what do you play in jazz band? i play tenor sax :)
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Well, take this advice(from a guy). Us guys are no always the best creatures when it comes to expressing our feelings. When we like a girl, we pick on her or tease her or were just plain mean. I must be an odd duck. If I like someone, I strike up a conversation, not pick on them or tease them. Also, in High School theres going to be alot of hugging, and nicknames, and people experementing with the fact of being close to someone (for real) for the first time. Thats probably why that guy was being really sweet to you, he likes you, at least it seems that way. Its always going to be a little awkward no matter what High School situation your in. Evreyone is changing in evrey way, and some people just cope with the change different than others. Just be true to yourself, and don't rush things, you have your whole life ahead of you, why rush it. Yah know?:)
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