ok 1st off I'm 13/f..ok well i met this really amazing guy and i never felt this way about someone in my whole life..i think i may b in love w. him..and i don't want to hear "oh your too young to be in love." but the problem is that hes 17 and lives and hour and a half away from me. he doesn't know I'm only 13 either. in the time we got to know each other, he is starting to like me too. one time when we were talking he told me that age doesn't matter, as long as you love them its ok. here is some of the conversation:
me:it really sucks that we're this far away from each other.
him: yeah i no. but you know what doesn't suck? i got a really nice tan today.haha
me: haha
him: and plus I'm talking to this amazing girl who totally doesn't suck.
me: ouu and who might this be?
him: her names kelly ((my name))..do you know her?
me: yeah i might...and I'm talking to this amazing, cute, and sweet boy.
him: whats his name?
me: Joe ((his name))
him: he sounds pretty cool.
him: and how do you manage to always put a smile on my face?
me: i don't know. how to manage to put one on mine?
him: well..i asked you first.
me: i don't know your just amazing...its like i don't even have to try to impress you. i could just be myself and you'd like me anyway. thats what i love about you.
him: =) why do you even have to try? you've already impressed me.
how should i tell him I'm only 13? how do you think he'll take it?
sorry this was long =(
HELP ME !!
caramella answered Sunday May 27 2007, 2:45 pm: omg why would ypu lie in the first place?NEVER lie about your age EVER when your talking to aguy.Cuz in the end if something happens and he finds out your lying hell leave you!!well,i think you should just.......tell him.You have no other choice if you continue to lie to him more then you already are is going to get even bigger cuz youre going to have loved him more then you already do and itll end up bad.Just tell him and whatever happens happens.YOu must learn to take the consenquences of your actions now. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
Anna_x answered Sunday May 27 2007, 1:09 pm: Firstly, this guy seems to be a reasonable guy, and im sure if he did or does actually love you for who you really are, then he'll understand you telling him ur actually 13. How ever, if he takes it the wrong way, then he obviously wasnt right for you after all, but dont blame him IF he does take it the wrong way though.... [ Anna_x's advice column | Ask Anna_x A Question ]
SeventhXtrumpetX answered Sunday May 27 2007, 12:32 pm: First of all, lets put this clearly. Most people don't usually KNOW what love is until about 16 or 17. Trust me, I used to like this girl when i was 16 (i'm 17 now), and she is 15. She always claimed she loved me and she always claimed shed try to do as much as she could to keep things going.
what a lie that was. She did absolutly NOTHING to prolong the relationship. I constantly talked to my mom about her and tried seeing if we could arrange something, while both fo her parents knew me as "some guy lizzy likes", and at one point they tried to eliminate all contact from me to her.
and she claimed she loved me. wow. and I ell for it.
Maybe you do love him, but not as much as you think you do.
trust me, this girl made me feel really special. Nobody ever thouht of me the way she did, but everything fell apart. [ SeventhXtrumpetX's advice column | Ask SeventhXtrumpetX A Question ]
RoxyMoo answered Sunday May 27 2007, 12:32 pm: Hey
Of course your not to young to be in love :)
This guy sounds amazing, and your lucky to have him, hes lucky to have you aswell, you should tell him your age, Im sure he will understand, he sounds very genuine so I dont think age will bother him!
If you want to get with him, you cant hide your age foever, so the sooner he knows the better :) Just bring it into the conversation, act lik it doesnt matter!
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