14/F
Okay. Here it goes. Me and my friend [Dree] and her friend [my crush Drew] were going to the movies. The movie was so boring that we decided to play truth or dare. So, Dree [my friend] dared me to kiss Drew [my crush]. I said umm...okay. Drew [my crush] was like NO NO NO! WE ARE JUST FRIENDS!!! I felt like crying. I don't know what to do. I want to go out with him but I feel like I choke every time he is around! WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO?!
elizxabeth answered Sunday May 27 2007, 2:08 am: well you could ask your friend to ask drew if he likes you or not, but i think your best bet is to just straight out talk to him. just tellll him how you feel :)
solidadvice4teens answered Saturday May 26 2007, 10:19 pm: How embarassing. I would have to say this guy isn't interested in you the way you are in him. If he was interested in you he wouldn't be refusing a kiss from you no would he?
Regardless of who was present if most guys are given an opportunity to smooch with an attractive girl they're interested in they aren't going to turn it down. He's plain and simple not into you and i know that hurts like hell but it's the truth.
His objection to a kiss ad the way he embarassed you makes it abundantly clear. It's his loss. I'm surprised the inconsiderate lout still seems attractive to you and friend material.
You need to move on as he's shown you where he stands regarding dating you. It's not going to change and you shouldn't allow him to embarass you ever again. Who needs someone like him around? His reaction was a very poor one.
You should confront him when you see him next and tell him straight-up "You really embarassed me last night in front of my friends. Would it have killed you to go along with the game? I used to think you were my friend and hell I even liked you but I'm beginning to re-think where you do or do not fit in my life."
Walk away after saying it and let him think. He'll realize that he really hurt you and made you look bad the other night. If you still want him as a friend keep him but he's never going to come around and be your boyfriend. It's evident he's not interested.
He may also not want to ruin things between you as friends but his whole act where he expressed such a reaction of disgusts suggests he's not romantically interested in you in the slightest and that's not to be mean it's meant to deliver the truth.
You can do better and it's his loss anyways. For all he knows he may have missed out on a great girl, a great kiss and a relationship. I wonder if he has feet left as he's shot himself in both of them. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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