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Crazy stalker guy
14/f/Australia
So I have this internet stalker guy and I'm really scared. He thinks he has my phone number and address but it's not mine, but he can get mine so easily. We always fight (Because it's a forced friendship) and he says if I don't forgive him he'll call my home, and school and get me into trouble. I usually forgive him out of fear but tonight I decided to stand up to him. I know he'll call that house and find out I don't live there and get my real number. He did it to Kevin so he's doing it to me.
Anyways my question is: What do I do if he does call? Also: The only way to save myself is to get a private number so he can't find it AND FAST. But if I tell my mum she'll get the internet cut off. Do I tell her what's really been going on or do I say something else to get her to change it to silent.
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quit talking to this guy. don't even think about talking to him again. block him on myspace or whatever. and make sure that any public profile you have (like myspace) doesn't give out your last name or phone number or address. he can't just call your school and get you in trouble if you didn't do anything, that's gay. if he does call, call the police on him. there's no reason he needs to be contacting you. tell your mom about it, no doubt. you don't need to change the phone lines or anything, but you need to make sure that you have somebody with you at all times. just tell her that this guy has been bothering you and that you are scared. but please quit talking to this dweeb.
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I've had a lot of these crazy men chasing after me. Honestly, the best thing you can do is cut them off. COMPLETELY. Just think, it is the internet. He has no control over you in real life. Block him, and if he makes a new screenname or Myspace, block him again. Does he know your last name? If he doesn't, he CAN'T find you or hurt you.
I don't really understand how he could find your real phone number so easily as long as he doesn't have your last name. If he DOES have your last name, then I think you'll have to tell your parents and contact the police.
This guy is probably full of crap. You think that he's going to find you and stuff, but I doubt he will. Especially if he doesn't live near you. Like, if he doesn't live in Australia, don't even worry about it.
I can't tell you enough- block him. You cannot forgive this guy any longer. He is a creep. You can do a lot better than that. You don't need him for anything. After a while, he will probably forget about you. I was reccently bothered a lot by a 35 year old on Myspace. I blocked him, and I also had a few of my guy friends yell at him.
You could always tell him that your father is a police man and that you know where he lives too. Yes, it's lying, but it technically could scare him away. I remember one time, when a guy was bothering me, I made a fake myspace, pretended to be another older guy, and I messaged him and said, "Listen. If you talk to Johanna (me) again, I am going to come find you. She's my girlfriend, and I know where you live now. Don't talk to her again, or I'll come find you." So you could do that too, if you have no other choice.
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Call the police.
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block him..
just dont talk to him
how can he get your number really easily?
tell your mom the truth.
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first of all, you cant worry about getting in trouble with your mom now. this is very important. you need to stop talking to him and if you think its serious enough, report him to someone. he cant get your number or address unless its on the internet so if you have it on somewhere take in off asap. dont believe the things hes telling you, he is most likely lying.
good luck!
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How can he get your number so easily?
If you are really scared I think you should tell your mom, Or call the cops or something.
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