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used to be friends


Question Posted Wednesday May 23 2007, 9:29 pm

Me and this girl used to be BEST friends. Everyone knew we were inseperable. But many things happen that i not going to bore you with and we stoped being friends. Now everytime im around her im just in a bad mood she just annoys me so much and i try not to let her get to me but i cant help it. I cant just ignore her because she is in my group of friends and were always together. What sould i do i cant stand being near her all the time?

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twistedlover69 answered Thursday May 24 2007, 12:23 pm:
think what you cant stand to be near her all of a sudden you guys use to be iseperable so you know her pretty well im guessing and if she gets on your nerves im pretty sure shes getting on others nerves tell that bitch to shut up i know i have the problem im know for being honest and when someone annoys me i let them know and if she doesnt stop tell your friends you chill with them later or i know this sound immature but fuck it play her and her own game annoy her mimik her im pretty sure she'll shut up real quick when she knows that your not playing her games and or taking her shit dont let her get under ur skin good luck i hope i helped my inbox is always open

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GalPalNessa answered Thursday May 24 2007, 11:26 am:
omg! it is as if you're reliving my life with that! HAHA!
I was the best of friends with this girl, we were sooooo inseparable! and everyone knew it. we were almost like sisters! but on our last year of school, things happened, and ugh! Yeah, right now i can't stand her guts. I really haven't seen her for like a year. which i guess is good. Distance always helps. it sure helped me... wonds kind of healed.. until i tried to talk to her and patch the friendship.. and then she pretty much demostrated that she was a total bitch to me once again... and as you can tell am pretty mad just thinking about her! haha!
Try to just ignore her. Just simply don't pay attention whenever she's near. Go ahead and have your fun! they're your friends too, so enjoy, have fun. With time maybe that feeling will go away, and you'll be able to talk to her and patch things up...
I've been in both situations... haha! obviously the most recent where i absolutely hate the girl.. and the other where i can happilly tell you that the girl is currently me bestest friend!
There's not much you can do right now to stop or prevent those feelings. All i can tell you is to try to reax, try not to let her get to you that much... Hey, for all you know, she might be feeling the same way haha! Just have fun, wheather she's there, or not. =)

wish you all the luck! =)

VB

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x_s_a_r_a_h_x answered Thursday May 24 2007, 10:44 am:
I'm in that kind of situation at the moment but we're not in the same friend group which makes it easier.
I think it would be a good idea to keep your distance or try to figure out why she annoys you so much. If you figure that out, you might be able to overcome the annoyance and enjoy hannging round with your friends more.
If not then maybe confront her about the situation or friend some new friends?

Sarah

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soccergurlie1220 answered Thursday May 24 2007, 10:15 am:
Well, you could try and pull a few friends to hang out instead of hanging out with the whole group. Or you could simply tell her, you annoy me please try and and stay as far away from me as possible when we hang out. Or the easiest thing but the hardest thing not hang out with your friends when shes around and get s'more different friends that arn't friends with her?

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