I have known this guy for a couple weeks, and he doesnt trust girls at all. He's gotten hurt in the past, and you can just see the hurt in his eyes. He acts tough just to try to forget about it. What can i do? I care about him.
Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? GalPalNessa answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 11:22 pm: awwww
sounds like one of my bestest friends...
Try to simply talk to him. show him that not all girls are the same. talk to him about everything and anything about life and eachother or really, even the silliest of things or most serious! =) make him feel like he can talk to you about anything... like he has someone with whom he can really feel confortable with.. and take it from there =) just have fun with him.. make him feel welcomed and able to be open =)
xo_summertimegirl_ox answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 8:07 pm: Support him when he needs it. He seems really in need for you or people. Comfort him, get to know him more as an individual. Once you know somewhat about this guy who has gotten hurt, you can maybe help him with his problems, and he will feel comfortable with you. Help him out with anything he needs help with. Just show him you care by doing special stuff for this guy. In time he will feel better about this and appreciate you for it! [ xo_summertimegirl_ox's advice column | Ask xo_summertimegirl_ox A Question ]
CharmingAshlie answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 6:40 pm: i would spend more time getting to know him first; you have only known him for a small amount of time; spend another month getting to know him; then start asking him some questions!!
DepthofHeart answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 6:25 pm: Take it slow, form a friendship with him and show him that he can trust you. You'll probably have to earn his trust before you consider any other type fo relationship. But he's the one that will have to take the chance, you'll just have to (When the timme comes) show him that it's worth it.
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