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nervous around my bf


Question Posted Tuesday May 22 2007, 4:23 pm

I'm 15 F

I started going out with a guy from school on Friday. I like him, a lot.
I'm really nervous around him.
I wanna hold his hand and kiss him
but I get so shaky, and I'm so afraid of messing up.
I don't wanna be moving too quickly
and lose him but yeah lol

Thanks in advance.


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xoashhx33 answered Thursday May 24 2007, 9:37 pm:
well you should just let him take the lead but as long as your ready for the next move like don't kiss him until YOUR ready to, if he makes the moves it should ease your nervousness a lot! ps have you made out before or would it be your 1st time? im me if you want, xoashhx33

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x_s_a_r_a_h_x answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 8:37 am:
Well if he's going out with you then he obviously likes you and is probably thinking the same things as you.
Try holding his hand and then maybe kissing him on the check first then make your move after you've seen his reaction.
I don't think he'd think you were moving too fast and don't be worried there's nothing to mess up.

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday May 23 2007, 12:33 am:
In this day and age where kids younger than you are having sex before they are even a couple doesn't seem to be considered moving too fast, I think you are completely in the clear of any fears of spooking him off.

Make your move.

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DepthofHeart answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 11:31 pm:
There's nothing to mess up on, make a move. You're going out with him so it's obvious that he likes you. Holding his hand isn't moving to fast. But before you kiss him try kissing him on the cheek first, see how he reacts.

::Jasmine::

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elizxabeth answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 11:19 pm:
just make a move! :)
don't be nervous, i'm sure he wants to do the same. i promise you won't mess up, just go for it!

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