|
friend. can't believe it.
let me start out by saying im a very good student. i have A's in every subject. well last night i was up till 2 A.M doing my homework, and i forgot to do this one science worksheet. today in class, i asked my friend, lets call her Julie, for her worksheet so i can copy it. she gave it to me with no problem. bad move, i know. well i was doing it and the teacher caught me, she just took the paper and said i will talk to you guys later. so later, she called me and julie down to the classroom and asked what happened. i told my teacher that i was over julie's house for a long time and i didnt have time do to my homework so julie felt bad and gave it to me. julie said that i took the paper without asking her, and that is such a frickin lie! she GAVE me the paper, I swear to God on my life she did. now she told my other friend that she's not gonna talk to me anymore, and my friend told me thats what julie said. me and julie are so close. we've been friends since last year but it feels like weve been friends for a lifetime. wtf should i do? SOO sorry this is long/confusing. thank you so much, you have no idea how much it means to me.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I kno that ya'll have been friends for a good little while and it's hard to let people go sometime that's exactly what you need to do LET HER GO. If she's acting like that she was never really your friend to begin with. So don't worry you'll live without her.
$jazziepink_09$
]
hey
okay, well, i'm not saying what julie did was RIGHT but she might have just said that to the teacher to get her out of the situation, but the fact that she said she won't talk to you anymore was SO uncalled for. she's not your friend if she did that.
i think you should talk to the teacher separately, like without julie, and tell her the truth. no lies. the teacher will have more respect for you later, and teachers always prefer honest students over ones that lie. so definitely just explain to her the situation. even if she does like, give you a lunch detention or something, she'll still have your respect. which once you lose from someone, it's nearly impossible to get back.
julie? let her deal with her own problems. if she didn't wanna get into trouble, she shouldn't have given you the worksheet.
]
i'm really sorry to say this, but your friends doesn't sound like that great of a friend.... if anything, all she seemed to be trying to do is cover herself, try not to get herself in trouble... and then telling your other friends what you say are lies... and not talking to you anymore?? thats just way to much... does she think you did it to get her in trouble or something??? i say try talking to her... make her talk and listen to you.... try to find out why she is reacting or overreacting i would say, the way she is... and I guess take it from there...
good luck!
VB
]
More Questions: |