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getting high & drinking


Question Posted Sunday May 20 2007, 8:27 pm

lately there's been a lot of pressure to get into drinking/getting high. im wondering if when you're high, can you control yourself in any way, like around parents? im basically asking if there's anyway to hide either of these, or if i'll just have to do it and sleepover at a friends that night.

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TheWallflower answered Monday May 21 2007, 9:40 pm:
Few things you should know

1. Peer pressure is retarded, don't let it affect you.

2. Yes you can act perfectly sober when you're high, unless, you are really, really high. But I doubt anyone will smoke you out that much. Same with getting drunk. If you are going to drink, drink enough to get a buzz so things start becoming more fun, but once you feel buzzed, don't drink much more. You should be able to act sober under those conditions. Just don't think that just because you're high or drunk it'll cause you to act high or drunk, because it doesn't. Don't worry, relax, take deep breaths before going home. If you have a bad feeling about getting caught, sprint 40 yards a fwe times before going into your house. If you are really drunk or stoned, don't go home. ALso, don't drink and smoke at the same time, it magnifies how intoxicated you are.

Also make sure to cover up your breath, don't bring home friends who are spazzy and/or don't know how to handle themselves. your best bet would still be to sleepover at your friends house if it is your first time though.

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RAWR-TisMegan answered Monday May 21 2007, 9:01 pm:
Honestly, why do it?
I know about peer pressure
But how stupid is it to give in

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orphans answered Monday May 21 2007, 10:30 am:
i cant control myself too much only for like a minute, but i might say something that i wouldnt say, but its not 100% wierd
drinking, when your drunk you bascially cant control yourselff, but high you can semi control yourself half the time.

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juliet132132 answered Monday May 21 2007, 12:58 am:
It's kind of odd when you are high actually. You can sort of control yourself but only for a few moments. Like...if it's your first time, your going to laugh at EVERYTHING. So I would go to a friends house. Only because it is a tad hard to control what you do.

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yourrtrustyhelpline answered Sunday May 20 2007, 11:23 pm:
well, it really depends on you. i can hold my own when i`m drunk/faded. i`ve gotten messed up as hell, but as soon as my parents came into the picture, i was completely fine, just a little giggley, maybe. the first time you try it, you should sleep over at a friends house. try your hardest to control yourself &see how well you do. you have to find your limit.

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LoveNJstyle answered Sunday May 20 2007, 11:10 pm:
don't give in to peer pressure. if you want to do those things well then fine but if you're just doing it to be cool... you're gonna hate it.
now i'm not supporting these things but i'll just tell you what i know.
high - you can get by the parents. spending the night at someone else's house is probably best but its not hard to cover up. eyedrops and a light spray will do the trick.
drunk - depends how much you drink. sleeping over is best so theres no driving or irresponsible drivers.. it really depends how active your parents are in your life. if they ask 384903284 questions whenever you get home... stay somewhere but if they dont, go to your room and sleep it off.
if you need anything, let me know... <3

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DandKitsLOVE01 answered Sunday May 20 2007, 10:49 pm:
when i'm high i try not to be in front of my parents , i just dont look them in the eye when i am so they cant see my eyes are red. i try not to say too much cause if i do i have a tendisy to mix up my words. if your eyes get red , buy clear eye or something that clears redness.

yes , you can control yourself when high. Its not like drinking. if im happy while im high then im really happy. if im in a bad mood then i get really mean. :/

ive drank before but i havent got drunk, yet. its probably more hard to control your self when drunk, but i dont think its scary to be drunk. you deffently dont want to be around your parents when you are tipsy :]

hope i heled.

xx kaylaaaaa

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cOws_in_yOur_tuba answered Sunday May 20 2007, 10:36 pm:
Most likely they'll be able to tell because it's hard to control your actions if you're drunk or high enough. I'm not gonna tell you it's bad and not to do it, because if you want to experiment, there's nothing wrong with that as long as you don't overdo it. I wouldn't sleep over a friend's house, unless you're sure their parents won't be home. Instead, just go someplace around your neighborhood where you're sure no one will see you. That's what I did when me and my friend were experimenting with cigarettes. Which are nasty by the way. :D

xo Erin

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vomski10 answered Sunday May 20 2007, 10:25 pm:
ok listen. that stuff is not good. i just got in trouble for drinking recently and was supsended from my school's sport team. it's not a smart idea. i don't know much about getting high seeing as i never had. but i've been around it and you will smell like it and you will have bloodshot eyes and your eyes will be like half closed. drinking, your breath useally gives it away. and when you talk or walk it can be noticeable. basically if you are going to make bad decisions, you shouldn't be around your parents. never do it and come home unless you want to get in big trouble. i would just say don't do it because it's not good for you, i'm guessing it's illegal (for drinking, it's always illegal to use drugs) and i'm guessing your relatively young and you shouldn't be ruining your life, but of course it's your life and your choice.

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Chika answered Sunday May 20 2007, 10:13 pm:
it depends. When some people are high they have faces on that are just reallly high looking and others just don't. I wouldn't go around parents while your on something unless your used to it and you've learned to handle yourself.

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hollister_lover09 answered Sunday May 20 2007, 10:11 pm:
okay, every time you take a buff, you kill 1000 brain cells. yeah you have billions and millions.., but still. i say dont do it. your parents will tell. the smell for one. your eyes will be red. depends on the person, some laugh and cant stop, you just dont act like youself. so, dont do it..

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