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dont know waht t o do
hey . well im fourteen years old and my man is 18 . i like him alot and he keeps trying to have sex wiht me . but i say no. im fixing to move to another city and so is he. i really like him but i dont know if i should stay with him. i mean this is the first boyfriend my mom has let me keep. he doesnt pressure me to do anything . if i say no he understands. but yet my older cuzin always tells me that hes not good enough for him. but shes always going out with guys who are not even good for her either. What should i do about my boyfriend? should i stay with him or jux give us some time? byu the way we have been together for three months. but we have known eachother for a year.
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bugger what your cousin says about boys till she has it figured it out for herself, i'm not saying just sleep with the guy, but don't let anyone tell you about love or how it is supposed to be, its your OWN.
but if you ask me, wait till you are older with sex anyway. when you have found each other, give time.
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if both of you guys are moving soon deffently dont give your virginity to him if you are a virgin :]] , unless you plan on seeing each other still.
- kaylaa
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You said your boyfriend keeps asking you to have sex YET he DOESN'T pressure you. What sense does that make? None.
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I would definitely break up with him. If he loved you, he wouldn't keep asking you for sex even after you said no. He would back off about it & leave you alone. And him having sex with you anyways would be RAPE because he is an ADULT & you are a MINOR. Basically, you're a child.
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You said "he keeps trying to have sex wiht me" and "he doesnt pressure me to do anything"
Both of those statements can't be true. A guy who isn't pressuring you, stops asking.
Besides that, in a lot of states, it would be considered statutory rape for him to have sex with you.
Long distance relationships are hard, even as adults. As a teen, I personally think they are impossible. I would say enjoy the time you have left togeather, but be prepared to take a break when you move.
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Hey. I think you should stay with him. Its great to have an older boyfriend that understands you aren't ready and will not pressure you.
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