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friend trouble
Ok well one of my close friend got into an argument with my little sister. So when there's nothing to tlak about with other peope my friend talks bad stuff about her and calls her a bitch.
And my sister always runs up to me during school at recess time (yeha really annoying) and then when she goes away my friend would like like "bitch..hope she gets run over by a car"
um..i think she's annoying sometimes but..kinda uncomfortable here! What can I do to shut my friend up nicely but not break our friendship?
The best friend talk thing,not us.
And I can't tell my sister to fuck off cuz she's super senstive
ugh..help me please?
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Be like "You know she's my sister, right?" Maybe that will wake your friend up. And to your sister, when she comes up to you, just ignore her, because she obviously comes up to you because she likes to talk to you. So just ignore her and they'll be nothing for her to talk to you about.
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just like the person before me said, if your friend really is your friend the person will listen to you and understand. talking is the best thing to do but if you really don't want to talk about it you could just kinda avod your friend for a while (but don't be mean) and maybe every now and then bring up your sister in convos and say nice things about her and stuff and if he says anything, you can stand up for your little sister. and really, you shouldn't let your friend call your little sister a bitch. meany pants and butthead maybe, but bitch... no way.
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Just calmly tell your friend to chill, that is your sister she is talking about and she doesn't have to like her but you don't want to hear it.
If she gets angry at that, then she is the bitch. After all, wouldn't she want you to stick up for her the same way if someone was wishing her dead? Of course she would. It's good of you to stick up for the people you love. Even if they are annoying and uber sensitive. Even if they are bitchy!
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A family bond will probably be longer than a certain friendship. If a friend talks bad about your sister, tell her you don't like when she says that stuff, because well, it's your little sister. Just ask her nicely to stop saying that stuff about your sister, and if she was a real friend- she would stop.
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