Question Posted Wednesday September 3 2008, 5:30 am
My best friend and I are fighting over a boy in school. My friend and him are kind of popular and I am not. I really want to have him as my boyfriend but I don't think he likes me. Should I let my friend have the boy? Or if I have a chance, should I do everything I can to make him like me. But if I get but if I get the boy do you think my friend will be friends with me?
venom_97 answered Wednesday September 3 2008, 10:15 am: Never lose a friendship over a boy. Friends are hard to find, boys come a dime a dozen. Think about it. How would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot and your friend wanted your man? It wouldn't be cool, would it? If you do take him, consider losing your friend, AND HURTING your friend. Also, look into self, do you only want him because he is popular? If so, don't do that. Find your self on your own by seeking your own identity. By doing this, you find your own man, your own happiness without the reputation of being a back stabber or a fake friend who isn't trustworthy. Good luck and you are better than that! [ venom_97's advice column | Ask venom_97 A Question ]
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