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my boyfriends three years older than me. hes eighteen and im fifteen. hes way more expirienced then i am. he always asks me when im on my period cause he wants to suck me down there it makes me uncomfortable. but he tells me its what every girl does when shes on her period. so i did it once and it was verrrrryyyy uncomvortable and grose but he seemed to like it. he keeps asking me now how do i telll him no without him wanting to break up with me? thanks.
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I'll be extremely blunt... nope it's not what every girl does or likes and if you feel uncomfortable about doing it you should just say no.
Also, another thing I'll be very blunt on... if he breaks up with you just because you say no to something he wants to do (even if its no to sex or whatever it might be) then you can be assured he's only with you for that and nothing else. Any guy that would break up with a gf over something so stupid is a guy that's only using her no matter how much he says otherwise.
I would suggest you tell him no for doing it again because you don't like it and then see from there how it goes. If he says all the other girls like it... well, you're not other girls are you? And if he threatens to break it off with you then do it yourself instead and find yourself a guy who at least likes you for who you are instead of just what he can do and get out of you.
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You're right, it's GROSS! You could just let him do it when you're not on your period. That would be so much better, and not as gross. Some people think being ate out is gross, but they don't know unless they've experienced. I think as long as he gets to get in your pants some way he won't be upset. That's how guys are. :p
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well i just had a prob kinda like this just not sex realeted and this is what i did. i had to be OPEN with him i had to tell him what was on my mind.. and if he broke up with me it wasnt supposed to be. but however if this guy dumps you becuase you wont do sexual things you dont need. him and since hes 18 hes an adult which makes it illelagle here in the u.s. i do believe. if you live here.
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well with that age difference you should feel uncomfortable. That means you're not ready for it. Your body is, but your mind needs more time. Tell him to wait and if he loves you, he will wait too. If a guy breaks up with you because you wont let him "perform" on you then he isnt worth your time.
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