i masturbate a lot, but i only do it on my clitoris because fingering myself doesnt feel like anything.
am i doing it wrong?
like i dont even feel it when i do & i really want to make it feel enjoyable because whenever my boyfriend fingers me its like nothing happens. it doesnt feel good or like anything.
Many females focus on it for pleasure but others find it too intense or don't get pleasure from it etc. There's no right or wrong way with this.
Each person enjoys something different so asking for suggestions will not help you. What works for one female will not for another.
You really have to figure out on your own over time what feels good for you and then tell your boyfriend and communicate before, during, after fingering exactly what you want. He's clueless otherwise and there's no point in him trying to do this if neither you nor him know what kind of stimulation you respond to. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
leLovely answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 8:25 pm: It's fine, do whatever you want and whatever feels good to you. There's not really a right way to do it. If you're not getting any pleasure at all, why not ask your boyfriend to rub your clit too while he's fingering you? [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
ANG answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 7:54 pm: It would be good to rub your clitoris and finger yourself at the same time. Or when your boyfriend fingers you ask him to do that. [ ANG's advice column | Ask ANG A Question ]
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