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Question Posted Sunday April 29 2007, 6:02 am

This is a weird one... I'm 22 and I've had sex with three guys. Through random luck, all three had larger than average-sized penises. (Going by the average size reported by studies.) The last guy I dated was ridiculous; despite being short and thin in stature, his penis was 7.5 inches long, 6.5 inches in *circumference* - I'm not kidding. Sex was actually a bit painful sometimes!

Anyway, I'm seeing someone at the moment and I have realised I have this really stupid fear - that he's going to be small. It's not that I care in terms of my pleasure (so far he's been pretty good with his hands, if you know what I mean, and I think he'll be good in bed too). But I have no idea what to say if he's small! When I found out how big my exboyfriend was, I gasped and said, "Jesus Christ!"... Is it ok to say nothing if a guy is average or small, or do guys appreciate it if you pretend to be impressed even if you aren't?

Sorry this question is so bizarre, but I'd really appreciate some advice on this topic!

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Courtney19 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 7:08 pm:
I have kind of been in the same situation. My boyfriend is big and while we were not dating i had sex with another guy. (we have broken up like 3 times) The guy i had sex with was not as wide as my boyfriend and it didnt feel as good. I was honest with him and it did feel good just not the same because i wasnt used to it. I didnt hurt his feeling and he appriciated the honesty. Dont pretend to be impressed because thats the way i was at first part of the sex but then when i knew it was wrong to do that to him i just told him. And you'll regret faking it because then you'll be lying to him and the next time if you do have sex again you wont enjoy it like he will. hope i helped.

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Jessica13 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 6:19 pm:
ok if he shows it to you even if it is big or small just be like "but do you know how to use it"
and don't worrie because there are guys out there that have a really really small penis and give the best pleasurable sex
don't worrie so much about it
hey he could turn how to be big or small who cares
lol what i mean is that don't fear about how big his penis is
hey fear that he could be a girl lol just kidding
you will get through this
hope i helped

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dropkickCathyy answered Sunday April 29 2007, 12:14 pm:
Do not try to act as though you're impressed, you don't need to act. Just don't say anything about it. I mean if he's small, sure you'll be a bit disappointed, who wouldn't? But, if you really like this guy, it won't matter. If he's bad in bed, then just either tell him you want to do other things while in bed so something else can give you what you need and he might even think it's him and the other object is just intensifying it, or just don't have sex too often, but do it every once in a while.

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AskJR answered Sunday April 29 2007, 11:15 am:
Okay, been there-- done that.

Who ever said quality, not quanity ... was not a woman!

You have to have both.

If this guy is too small, BUT you really, really like, if not love him, the sex will be okay.

If this is a casual relationship-- it ain't gonna work.

Once you've had size, it's hard to go undersized girl.

It's just human (woman) nature.

Dump him if not to your standards.

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