I'm not sure if this is appropriate for this website or not, but I'm not sure where else to turn for an answer.
When my boyfriend fingers me, I don't get much of a rush or good feeling. If he rubs my clit then yeah, it'll feel good, but thats about it. I can't get any sort of orgasm from it. I'm not sure what to tell him to do to make it more pleasurable, I feel like I'm faking it all just to make him happy. What should I do?
rick505 answered Sunday April 29 2007, 1:07 pm: as far as telling him what to do, you need to find out what you like so you can tell him. A little bit of self examination here seems to be in order. Just so you know, if you invite him to watch your self examination he will totally think its hot. [ rick505's advice column | Ask rick505 A Question ]
AskJR answered Sunday April 29 2007, 11:05 am: First of all NEVER fake anything in sex. All you are doing is confirming to him that he is on the right path and you are stuck with something you don't like!
Second of all, tell him you do not like that and it does not feel good to you. Every girl is different and you shouldn't be ashamed of what feels good and what does not. (Guys are the same way, BYW)
Tell him rubbing your clitorous feels good but the fingering does not, and tell him all the other feel goods and tell him the not feel goods. Start it off honestly and right or you'll end up turned off and frustrated and in a trap of faking to "please" him which he doesn't want..he wants the truth.
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