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why does she like what i like?
okay she (Jackie) doesnt like every thing i like. but i told her that i like skulls on t shirts and belts and i think I'll get a tattoo of one. One week later me and her hang out with all of our friends, and she came up to me and said "i like to get a tatto too, like a skull" i respond "yeah me too but my own design"
(it might sound like she likes skulls too)
and then my friends talk about life in futuer, i said i dont like kids & i never wanted kids cause i dont see my self as a good parent. but Jackie always wanted kids, we all were at the movies & there was kidds making alot of noise in the movies, she moved up to me to whisper in my ear and said, "see this is the reson why i dont like kids." i nod okay and began to watch the movie. then tonight i was checking her myspace page and it read the persons details (that list about themself) and it read, children:someday.
whats the deal!?
it kinda sounds like she is liking what i like so i can like her. What do you think?
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what everyone is saying is true, but think of it from a different point.
-she might not like those kids, she said she doesn't like kids, not that she doesn't want them.
-she could probably be trying to find things in commen with you.
- if you know her a lot, then great, you know shes faking,but other than that, none of us can tell. maybe you got her thinking she might like a tattoo too, who knows.she might not be what you think.
- anywayss, i have a test. have a conversation and add in things you like and things you don't (its better on aim) and then wait for her to say something about it.ex- you:i like necklaces with spikes on it. one week or whenever later when she says that she likes them too, change your opinion. say " really?actually i don't like them anymore, they would hurt. hah, thats just an example. but you have to be regular about it;
so good luck! & hope i helped!
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i agree i would just nicely tell her that hey you dont have to pretend to like what i like for me to want to go out with you or like you
lots of love,lizzie
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Regardless of her age (and yours too) she IS NOT being true to herself.
She is a fake.
She is parroting everything you like and don't like, say and do, to get your approval and in order to get you to like her.
It's an immature game she is playing and she doesn't even know who she is let alone what she wants.
It's a lost cause at this age.
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yeah she's deffinatly changing herself to be something she's not for you. which is wickedd not cool at all. tell her that you respect that your trying to get you to like her but it's not going to work that way. you have to explain to her that she doesn't need to change herself as a person for someone. and tell her you would like her more if she had her own personality and morals, not yours.
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