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jelousy?
ok so i understand my bff has been friends with this other girl since like 2nd grade or sumthing like that and the last couple of weeks they hang out ALOT unless my friend is with me like after school they r together and everything then the day they go back to school they are telling everybody wut they di and everything i know u shouldnt be jelous but is there a way i can be less jelous please help me
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I agree with solidadvice4teens. A lot of good points made.
Instead of being left out and feeling jealous, try to join in with them when they do things together. Get to know her friend- she may be someone you end up really enjoy hanging out with.
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You should tell yourself every time that you begin to feel jealous that your friend likes you just as much as her other friends. Know that this is true and tell yourself again that she has enough love and friendship to go around for everyone. That statement is also true even if you fear it isn't.
The other thing you need to remember is that both of you have other friends beside each other. Sometimes you need to hang out with them rather than eachother all the time. This does not mean you like eachother less it just means you're making time for the others too.
That's all she is really doing here. You need to remind yourself of that and the fact she always comes back to you and hasn't ditched you.
Naturally, she's going to be as tight as she is with you with this girl she's known that long but it does not affect your friendship with her at all.
It's also natural for people to discuss what they did over the weekend with one another. Just remember while it was their time to share this time that it will be yours next time as you'll get to go with her to places they won't.
This brings up my other point. Your friend might think this girl she knows and her other friends aren't in to the same things you are or that you won't get along with her/them.
The next time they start talking together about what they did you should casually mention "Gee that sounds like fun. I wish I could have gone with you." This lets your friend know you would like to hang out with her and everyone else.
You could also ask your friend to introduce you to her other friends and see if you can all hang out as friends. You might want to throw a small party and invite them all some time.
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hey, well its always hard to cope with your bestfriend finding another good friend or reuniteing with an old one. you usually feel left out or not good enough in these kid of situations. theres two things you can do. a) talk to her about it and hope that she reacts well to it. b) get closer to other friends. i hope taht everything works out =].
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