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I'm worried that my friend dosnt care that i'm leaving.
I'm moving next year and i was talking to my friend that i was worried that me and my friends wont talk that much anymore cause i'm moving to a different state. so my friend Terrie said "dont worrie we will keep in touch, we are best friends. and i make sure we will still be friends forever" that made me feel all warm inside.
Till yesterday i said the same thing to my friend Sally, i told her i feel bad and worried that we wont keep in touch, sally didnt say anything. She was quite and i was hoping for her to say something like terrie did to keep me not worring.
now i feel like sally will not keep in touched. we were friend for 7 years. why wouldnt she say anything?
is she mad that i will leave?
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Like those before me said, she could feel sad and shocked about your move.
Realistically, when you move, you miss your friends but you also make new ones. As time goes on, you are in touch less and less until you realize you haven't spoke to your old friends in a long time.
She may be thinking that.
Just try to keep in touch as much as possible and try not to get so caught up in your new life so much that you forget your old friends.
Believe me, it's easy enough to get so busy you lose time.
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hey, i bet shes just upset that your moving. people react differently to different situations. maybe her way is being in denial and pretending that everythings normal and that your not moving. give her some time to let it sink in.
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She could be upset, and she could be shocked. She didn't see it coming, so she didn't know how to react or what to say.
Just talk to her about it again, & make sure that you guys stay in touch. Moving is a tough situation, just make sure you guys stay close.
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She's probably really upset about you moving. She could possibly be in denial too. Try talking to her again, and give her your new address/phone number when you know it. I'm sure she vaules your friendship just the same as Terrie does, they both probably handle difficult situations like this differently.
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