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no need to be meannn.
im new at my school, and i mean yano its great. EXCEPT this one girl. i really really really liked her in the beginning, like me and her could tottaly of been the best of friends. but, shes like really mean. as im finding out. like example today, i forgot my lunch money, i never ever do that, and always have atleast 10 dollars on me, so, today i was like, can i just borrow like 2 or 3 dollars? and ill promise ill pay you back. and shes like wellll, this is my lunch money for the week. [she gets like 20 dollars] and im like, ill pay you back tmrw, i promise. shes like well you might forget or something. and making these lame excuses. and i was like so mad. so i didnt even get to eat lunch. and i ended up passing out in like my study hall later that day. i was so mad. because i skip breakfast. i dont like it, i never will like it. and i can go usually just fine intill lunch.
so yeah. im still pretty mad. because the whole passing out thing, was pretty freaking embarrassing. and i mean, i saw she had a ton of money. she couldve spared me a couple of dollars. and its not that shes poor or anything, she lives in like the 2nd nicest development in my town. and i live in a really really rich place. and she gets her nails done every week and everything. so its not that shes poor. and she cant possibly think, that i wouldnt pay her back, since i live in a million dollar home + i needed 40 cents one day, and i asked the other girl at my table, and she said sure. and i paid her back the next day.
so shes obviously just selfish. or whatever.
how do i fix this?
we cant switch lunch tables..
and she was even telling me about her boyfriend in highschool [were in middle school, 8th.] and all she talks about is him, and how she says she finds it funny to hurt his feelings and show that she has the power?!!!!
like what the heck. yeah. I NEED YOUR HELP.
what do i do!?!?!?
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You're right, she is selfish. You're obviously the nicer girl, and that's good. And you have an advantage.
For one, more people will want to be around you, and you're more trustworthy. You're nicer, so people will automatically wanna be around you because they know you won't be rude, or bitchy. And they know you won't hurt their feelings on purpose.
As for your friend though, people won't like her since she's rude, and she's selfish. Nobody wants to be around a person like that. Just explain to her that what she did caused you to pass out. You can sort of send her on a guilt trip. Also honey, it's best to eat breakfast. You need at least 2000-2500 calories a day, and you might not get that without breakfast. Even if it's something light like some toast or a bagel, the littlest thing counts. It also helps to bring your grades up & your focus more on tact.
Just talk to her about it, and just remember that you're a better person. Not necessarily better, but people will tend to like you more. =) Good luck.
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well it was real rude of her not to spare you some money.. but dnt throw mayo on her shirt, thats no way to solve things. first of all you should at least eat a litttle breakfast, i hate it too, but i eat it.
a lot of people are like that, they dont liket o give people money. you might have to deal with her.
as for talking to her boyfriend, you maybe need to confront her, but do it kinda in a sutle but bitchy way to show her thats she was being a btich for not giving you 3 dollars thentelling ehr boyfriend about you.....
dont resort to the mayo, but proove a point, but if she asks you for money, give it to her, to show her your a better person and not a bitch!
hope i helped
LAuren
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this woman is a monster from the deep, deal with this by tossing mayonaise on her favorite shirt.
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