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not sure what to do anymore
I have been single for about four months and it is starting to get old. There is this guy I have liked for awhile now but Its not getting anywhere. We have had sex with eachother even tho I know we shouldnt have because its just a tease. I want to make him want me but I`m not sure how. Please give me some ideas? I want him to want me as much as I want him.
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It's impossible to make him like you as much you like him. It also won’t make you happy.
You want to be loved. You want to be loved for being your own marvelous self. But if you work hard at making him love you, then it's not your marvelous self that attracted him. It's all the hard work you've been putting in! And to keep him, you'll have to keep working!
That's not what you want hun. Wait for someone who can give the affection you want, the affection for being your own sweet self, not the affection you can win by trying so desperately to attract him, or worse, turning yourself into someone else to attract him.
So here is my actual advice:
Be the best of yourself: Stay in touch, show him genuine affection and interest in his life. Ask questions. Be kind and let him know you care and that you'd like the same from him. Don't play games, just be consistently kind. Either he'll respond to you, or he won’t. If he does, awesome! Then he likes you for YOU! If he doesn’t, let it go, because if he doesn’t like you for who you are, then he can’t give you the love you really want anyways.
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well first of all, there is no way to make a guy want you. but you can start by asking him how he feels about you and telling him how you feels about him, its possible that he already does want you as much as you want him he's just afraid to show it..good luck hope i helped <3
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if you have had sex with him and he hasn't come back for more he is likely getting it somewhere else. You would be better off finding someone new. Being bore with being single IS NOT a reason to get a boyfriend, not if you want it to last.
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OK. So you have had sex with this guy. But you still dont know if he likes you. That is a bit strange. But still, why dont you just ask this guy if he likes you. He can only say three things: Yes,No,Maybe. For him to like you more talk about things you have in common. Go out with him to places you both enjoy. Its not always the physical things that will make him like you. But the personal and emotional things as well. Hope ive helped.
Jess1993
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I've said it before and I will say it again: Making someone change their feelings is as easy as changing the past.
In short- you can't.
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