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So confused...
Well, it's been, like, eight months since I've been dating this guy, Dane. He's really sweet and funny... And he's my second boyfriend, so this is kind of big for me to have been dating someone for so long like this.
The farthest we've been is holding hands, and we used to hold hands all the time at basketball games and stuff, in front of all of our friends. People would laugh and make fun of us, but we would just laugh along because in our minds, we both know they have never felt like this before.
Well, when we first began going out, he used to tell some of his friends (who told me) that he was going to kiss me soon, but that never happend. Now, he doesn't even hold my hand anymore like he used to. I'm just afraid; is he embarrassed? Is he scared? Or is he just not very interested in me anymore as much as he used to be?
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it defiantley on his mind all the time that he wants to kiss you - he is just ebarassed and wants to find the perfect time.
Ask him to go out somewhere special , be alone that way you can talk,get it over with and then kiss.He is interested just scared.So when your alone,just kiss him.People would laugh at you - they dont mean it in a big way.
Just ask him are you embarrased to hold my hand, getting out in the open is the best possible thing to do.He dosnt want to make a mistake by kissing you and you pulling away.Go to the cinema - its perfect for snuggling,holding,kissing,looking at eachother and then turning to the screen.
He is interested.Its up to you to make the move or let him know that he can make the move too.And like rick said, you could just say "you can kiss me if you want to"
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i agree with rick below , and like, make sure you do it when youre alone. not at the game or anything....
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guys do not read minds. You should just casually say at some point when you're alone together."you could kiss me if you wanted to" that puts the move directly on his part. if he kisses you, awesome! if he doesn't, then maybe you are growing apart instead of closer together.
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You should really be asking him these questions.
You have been together for 8 months. That is plenty of time for you to start discussing your feelings about things.
You could just kiss him. You know he wants to, because his friends have told you that he does.
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