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Hi, im 14 years old and this is my first year of high school. Tommorow I am going on a movie date with a guy I really really like. The problem is im really nervous. I've never been on a date before and I know he's more... experienced then me in some aspects. I want to make this date work and not act really dumb. Any ideas to make the date go easier and tips so I can stop being so nervous? Thanks for reading this (link)
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hey. To make your movie date easier why dont you tell this guy that you are a bit nervous about being on the date. If you do something that is stupid than at least he will understand. But if you dont say anything he might think your not having a good time. So dont be afraid to tell him and enjoy yourself.
thanks. jess1993
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I hvae just gotten loads of zits on my chin I have tried everything nothing is making them go away, any suggestions?
Also, what does zits on your chin mean like does it mean you have a lack of fruit etc yano the way having zits on different places on your face is a sign etc
thanks
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hey. Having zits and pimples on urself means that you might be lacking fruit but it also means your face isnt clean. To get these zits away i would recommend tea tree oil. It comes in a bottle. But in future make sure you wash your face really well. not just in the shower either.
hope ive helped. jess1993
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Hey everyone, I am 13/f (in eighth grade). So I have this crush on a guy, I have liked him for over a year, hes so funny, I have a feeling he likes me cause its seems like he talks to me whenever he has a chance, and I don't know I just can sense it. What should I do, there is a formal coming up, should I ask him? One of my biggest fears is rejection, and if he rejected me, I don't think I would be able to handle it! HELP, THANKS (link)
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Let this guy know your interested. He probably thinks you just want to be friends. Also before the formal act extra friendly and hang around him. Then when the time is right (you'll know) ask him out. If you dont wanna get rejected let him ask you. But you absolutely have to act like you want him to ask you before he does.
good luck. Jess1993
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I have been single for about four months and it is starting to get old. There is this guy I have liked for awhile now but Its not getting anywhere. We have had sex with eachother even tho I know we shouldnt have because its just a tease. I want to make him want me but I`m not sure how. Please give me some ideas? I want him to want me as much as I want him.
I will rate high for good detaild advice! (link)
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OK. So you have had sex with this guy. But you still dont know if he likes you. That is a bit strange. But still, why dont you just ask this guy if he likes you. He can only say three things: Yes,No,Maybe. For him to like you more talk about things you have in common. Go out with him to places you both enjoy. Its not always the physical things that will make him like you. But the personal and emotional things as well. Hope ive helped.
Jess1993
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okay so my problem is that i think too much.. mostly about stupid things.. like i picture them a differnt way than reality. i always think of the worst possible thing that can happen. like my boyfriend was going to his friends house and there were gonna be 2 girls and 5 guys. so i said to him just be careful with the girls. i know he's not going to do anything with them but thats what popped into my head. it's weird and i want to stop! any suggestions?
thanks xox (link)
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I do the same thing as you. I always think negatively. But i do have a solution which might help. And that means do nothing. If you know your bf isnt going to cheat on you or something, you have nothing to worry about. So go and do something that occupy's you and then the next day you will find nothing has happened. If your sure of something but still worried, take it off your mind. And it will go past quickly. This is living your life.
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i just got out of the shower like 10 minutes ago, and i went to my room to get a shirt because i grabbed the wrong one, and i got this pain like i was gonna get sick or something. but then i came down stairs and it got worse. it felt like someone was stabbing me or hitting me with something repeatedly in my mid to lower back. because of the pain it was hard to breathe and i started crying cause it really hurt. it doesn't hurt right now, but what could it be? (link)
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Dont worry about it. I had the exact same problem as you so i went and checked it out with my local doctor. It turns out that its just a stage mostly women from the age of 12-20 get pains where you said and fainting. If you still worried check it out with your doctor. But believe me its probably nothing. Just like it wasnt for me.
If you want any more information dont be shy to write to me.
Love Jess1993
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okay well one of my bestfriends has been on and off with this guy for about a year and the last 3 months he's been being really mean to her (telling her he hates her, making fun of her, not letting her have anyother guy friends, calling her ugly) but then he'll say something really sweet like im just kidding i love you your so beautiful or something like that. okay well this guy has even came up to me and told me he didnt really love her ive told my friend all of this but she really likes him and doesnt want to break up with him. so does anyone have any ideas of what i can tell her so she'll come to her senses because this guy has lowered her self estem and she doesnt feel like she deserves anything better because of him...thanks in advance (link)
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This guy is definately not worth you or your friends time. Sit her down. And carefully go through everything this boy has been saying, doing from beginning to end. Tell her that you have noticed a change. And that this guy is not worth it. After that its up to her. If she wants to dump this guy she will. But if she doesnt she has made a decision she will have to get herself out of.
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THIS IS MY COUSIN
I have recently moved away from the guy I may have loved, and I am uncertain to wheather or not I can continue the relationship or not. I moved to Michigan and he lives in Atlanta. I am afraid that he will date someone else while we are in a long distance relationship, I want to be more than friends with him, but I'm not sure what to do... (link)
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If he really likes you, the same way that you might love him, he will not date someone else. But you cant expect him to not date someone else when he doesnt know you like him more than a friend. If your worried tell him the truth. Then it is up to him what to do. Because you have been completly honest and upfront.
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hey im jackie and im 15. and there is this boy eric.. who i really like. I met his a while ago. But we never really talked.
Friday, we hung out with a bunch of our guy frinds and my twin sis. while there he and i played pool and he won. then we all went iceskating, and Eric skated with me the whole time. and was teaching me to skate {he does ice hockey} then on the way back to his house after the ice rink we both sat in the back and he sat really close to me and put his arm around me and covered me with a blanket then we hugged right before i left.
also, tuesday {yesterday}, me sister and i went over Eric's house.a nd the only other person there was matt. and eric and i were like fighting over his cell and to get it outta his hand i was like all over him. and the same when he was trying to get it from me and then we went to his room. and he was showing me everything. and he went to kiss me but for some STUPID reason, i didnt kiss him. and im mad at myself for that... but then we were lying on his bed and and he was lying on his side and my head was on his chest and we were holding hands.
i think from this he likes me too. let me know if you think im wrong. and also do u think he will ask me out. i know its only been two real hang outs. but at this rate i dont know if he will let me know wat you think
thanks a billlion! (link)
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From the look of what you have written i say that he likes you. But let him know that you like him aswell. He is probably a bit consious about asking you out because of what he might think you will say. So show signs that you like him and he will feel more brave and ask you out. Even if it does take a little while.
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