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friend with bad bf
16/f
okay well one of my bestfriends has been on and off with this guy for about a year and the last 3 months he's been being really mean to her (telling her he hates her, making fun of her, not letting her have anyother guy friends, calling her ugly) but then he'll say something really sweet like im just kidding i love you your so beautiful or something like that. okay well this guy has even came up to me and told me he didnt really love her ive told my friend all of this but she really likes him and doesnt want to break up with him. so does anyone have any ideas of what i can tell her so she'll come to her senses because this guy has lowered her self estem and she doesnt feel like she deserves anything better because of him...thanks in advance <33
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This guy is definately not worth you or your friends time. Sit her down. And carefully go through everything this boy has been saying, doing from beginning to end. Tell her that you have noticed a change. And that this guy is not worth it. After that its up to her. If she wants to dump this guy she will. But if she doesnt she has made a decision she will have to get herself out of.
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Make sure you tell her about what you think of her boyfriend and the situation. Let her know what he's doing to her and how you can see a difference in her personality. Thats about all that can be done. Its their relationship not yours. Just make sure your their for her and just don't push her, she's realize that he's not good for her soon enough.
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