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Avoiding swimming?
To be breif,
My mother is forcing me to go swimming tomorow..
I have a few reasons why I dont want to to..
*Im really self-conscious
*I hate swimming
*I self harm and im covered in scars
How am I supposed to get out of this without resorting to breaking my arm?
Cause I know EXACTLY how to do that if needs must.
Thanks
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hey
you have lots of choices
- calmly explain to your mom those three reasons why you don't want to go swimming tomorrow.
- like the girls below me said, "forget" your swimming suit at home =]
- get "sick" (say you're not feeling well, nausea, vomitting... works everyy time!)
& well, the last solution is to just go. but i think you'd rather intentionally break your arm than go.
you can use a bunch of big chunky bracelets to cover up the scars, & there's no reason to be self-concious. tell yourself you are beautiful & perfect the way you are. to help feel more confident, stare at yourself in the mirror & point out your most favorite body parts. it makes you feel good. swimming isn't so bad! it's really healthy & works EVERY muscle in your body.
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Leave your swim suit home or whatever. I use to self harm, and am sort of self conscious as well, but I still go.
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Say you got your period early. If she asks for evidence, create one. It's easy =). And "Do you really wanna see it, mom?" would do the trick as well.
"Forget" your swimming suit when you go to the pool or wherever.
That's all I can think of right now.
Let me know how it goes so I can do the same when it's my turn XD.
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