the guy that i REALLY like just asked out the girl he liked. he had asked her out before but she said no. so we had been flirting for about a month after this happened and we are in a lot of the same classes and we talk all the time. i thought things were looking good for me, when today he texted me and said he wasnt single any more. he had asked the girl out again and she had said yes.
so did i misread his actions? was he really interested in me or not? what happened? thanks in advance
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Drbaseball answered Monday April 2 2007, 11:35 pm: You may not have misread his actions as much as you think. as a guy i know from experience that if you asked a girl you really liked out and she said no, but then you meet someone like yourself, you can't help but talk to her and see if something comes out of it. But i'm gonna guess and say that he thought he still had a chance to get the girl he asked out before to say yes. And unfortunately she said yes. But don't worry their is probably some guy out there dying to talk to you and get to know you better and go out with you, so don't worry about it you will have many more instances like this and they will turn out better. [ Drbaseball's advice column | Ask Drbaseball A Question ]
iwantthetruth answered Monday April 2 2007, 9:09 pm: maybe you misread his feelings for you. guys are very confusing. wat may seem to be a "sign" to us is often just a guy's way of being friendly. they sometimes dont mean to lead us on purposely. i went through the same thing. i would say to move on. its hard but there are plenty of other guys that would love to date you. i bet you are a pretty, smart, and funny girl that any guy would be lucky to have. =)anything you need you can leave a message in my inbox. good luck [ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question ]
Kami answered Monday April 2 2007, 9:08 pm: Guys are so odd.I must admit.Ask him what's up.Maybe he is too scared to tell you the truth about everything.Ask his close friends...maybe they will tell you. [ Kami's advice column | Ask Kami A Question ]
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