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Hello.Kami or Kamille is fine.I am a journalist and a writer.I am very compassionate and caring and only give my best opinion to any problems.Friends reffer to me as a fun friend and their main support and advice system.I am very honest,opinionated,and I have a slight edge.I answer any problems with a honest,real-life answer.Please message me here if you need help.Thank You,Kami - Advice Columist.
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is there a site that will give me ideas on how to make my own clothes?
i have jeans that still fit me but are too short and i want to cut them but after i wanna make them look all cool cus i do it all the time
any help is fine thank youu xoxo (link)
There are books you can buy.Go to your local are store.hey are bound to have them.Also adding lace,sequins,and iron-ons can make them look stellar.Hop it helps!=)


okay so .. there was a lil chance i could of been pregant so i took plan b pills . i wund up getting my period about a week earlier than i should and a week after i had sex and took the pills, its never on a certain time though. i get it all differetn dates. so when i got it it wasnt light, but it wasnt as heavy as it was usually . do u think anything is wrong, or im just over reacting and worrying to much? (link)
You need to talk to a doctor.A female doctor preffered.They were trained to answer these questions.Over Reacting can help in some situations.Better to find out then find out later when you were right.Please consider my advice.


Hey. So, here's the deal: I'm 14 and I just lost quite a bit of weight last year but I still feel huge, especially my thighs. My friends all say I look good but that's cuz they are skinny and can actually wear bathing suits. I was hoping you could give me some advice on how to lose my thigh weight or at least tone it. I've been running more and I play 2 sports but it doesn't seem to help. Thanks in advance! (link)
First,you have to work on your self esteem.Ypu could be 95 lbs. and still feel fat.It is all in your head.After you start feeling good of yourself pick up the april issue of seventeen.In there are awesome cheer workouts to tone your butt,thighs,and legs.And in the may edition there are ab workouts.You ARE beautiful and even you cannot convince yourself of that.


ok so heres the deal. at 8 pm, i take a shower and let it air dry. at 10, i straighten it and it takes about 15-20 minutes because i have a really good straightener even though i have the tightest curls ever. i straighten my hair at night because in the mornings (before school) i dont have enough time to straighten my hair. i go to sleep with my bangs clipped back and i dont ponytail it because i get this crease in the mornings. when i wake up, its like half wavy but i dont mind because it only takes 5 minutes to fix that. the problem is, my hair ends up smelling funny (like i didnt wash it or something) and its kinda greasy. its probably from when i sweat while i sleep--my question is--what can i do to eliminate this odor, i take showers daily and i am a very clean person but i hate this smell in the mornings after i straighten my hair!
i don't know if this will help, but im 14/f (link)
Ok,leave it curly one day and ask what friends think maybe they will love it!


i have had sex like 15 times. i have never had an orgasm. i realllyy want one tho. what can i suggest to my boyfriend that he can do that will make me orgasm ? (link)
Clitoris Simulation.Oral sex,toys?


i'm 16, 17 next month.. i am 5 ft. tall and i weigh 103 lbs. is this normal for my age and height ? (link)
Nope,Gain some weight.Because people may worry about you.The anorexic look is never a 'in' fashion look.


Okay so basically i can't decide which girl i really do like. I mean its like one has the best personality ever and we get along and everything, but i've liked the other girl for about 1 year now and we always talk and im one of her good friends that she can really talk to but i mean she dosen't have as good of a personality as the other. so will someone please help me. thx in advance. (link)
Yes,I will do my best.Ok,you need to see who you are best interested in.Second,who has handled past relationships well.Are any of them two faced?Are they kind to everyone.How do they act when you talk to other girls?These kinda things will help alot!


When I get my period...and I use the bathroom...or take a shower...I notice these...weird, bloody...plasma-things....in the shape of little balls......on my pad/or in the shower/bathroom. They're like clots....and when I have my period...and am sitting down, I sometimes feel them come. Is it normal? (link)
Yes,very normal.It just emans you are at the peak of your period.Do not stress about it!ou will someday have a healthy baby!Just remember:You are a woman.


F/17

Me and my bf have been dating for 6 months now. When we make out it's great. But the problem is that when I give him a bllow job, it kinda smells bad. I put his dick in really deep which makes me wanna puke. The skin over there rolls back and he likes it but I dont because the cum there doesn't taste great. The end result is, he's not satisfied and I make a big fool of myself. How do I drive him crazy. I would appreciate any extra tips on driving a guy crazy while making out. Thanx. (link)
Maybe Blow Jobs are not the answer.Tell him that Blow Jobs are gross and that it makes you uncomfortable.If he does not understand maybe al he is looking for in you is a 'slut' and you deserve more.Ask him if he'd like anything else that does not invole his dead seamen in you mouth.Try googling 'sex tips' online or the library.


14/f

the guy that i REALLY like just asked out the girl he liked. he had asked her out before but she said no. so we had been flirting for about a month after this happened and we are in a lot of the same classes and we talk all the time. i thought things were looking good for me, when today he texted me and said he wasnt single any more. he had asked the girl out again and she had said yes.

so did i misread his actions? was he really interested in me or not? what happened? thanks in advance (link)
Guys are so odd.I must admit.Ask him what's up.Maybe he is too scared to tell you the truth about everything.Ask his close friends...maybe they will tell you.


I used to a really gross face with acne all over and now it is clearing up and i have HUGE pores. Is there a good clenser that will make my pores smaller but keep my face clear at the same time?
Thanx:) (link)
Neutrogena has a along line of products that will help you.Please try that brand.


Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it
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Yes,it may look good in a bikini...but during the year it makes you look like a clone.Someone who cannot set their "OWN" trends and need to follow everyone elses.I advise you wait a few more years.The more you wait,the better the choice you will make.


hey yall im 16 yrs old im 5 foot 6 inches and im only 95 lbs and its all from a very high metabolism whixh is goood but i get a lot of coments about lookin a lil sick sometimes !! is there a safe way to gain weight ? but not get fatty lookin just decent? (link)
Yes,there is.Eating more healthy balanced meals may help a huge ammount!Eating fatty foods every once and a while helps also.Please consider googling healthy wyas to gain weight OR go to your local library.


ok my thighs are kinda fat when im standing but when i sit down they get like elephanormous!! they are huge!! my question is how can i get them smaller or skinnier please help me i wanna be a cheerleader next year and it isnt cute wearing a tiny skirt with fat thighs nad how do u get rid of love handles caz that also isnt cute with a tiny shirt!
please help and thanx in advance (link)
The april cataloge in Seventeen mag. has a awesome cheer workout to tone your thighs,butt,and other areas.I advise you pick it up!But do not be so down on yourself.If you think that,you are just gving everyone else the ticket to judge you!Feel good!




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