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never been fingered
okay so i've never been fingered before, but i probably will by my boyfriend soon. will i bleed? i use tampons and i have no problem using any size so i don't know if that stretched out the hymen already? also i know this is gross but what if they finger you when you have discharge down there? any help would be appreciated!
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You probably won't bleed. In fact the only reason ou would bleed would be if he had super-sharp nails, or if he broke your hymen (and he wuld probably have to be quite violent to do that).
And the discharge is essential. It's the body's natural lubrication, and you get it when you are sexually excited. If you don't know that you shouldn't be doing things like fingering. Besides, your boyfriend will probably find you being 'wet' a turn on - like most girls find it hot when their guy has an erection.
Lastly, make sure you're reasy for fingering. If you don't want to, or even have to tiniest doubt, say so, and if your boyfriend truly respects you and your feeligns he'll wait until you're ready.
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you need the "discharge". it your natural lubricant. it will hurt if you aren't wet. well. either way it's gonna hurt. at least it did for me. but i didn't bleed, but i know some girls that did bleed.
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The tamp could have stretched out your hymen a lil..
but not that much.
mm no,
you shouldn't bleed, unless there hands are really fkn long.
mm and thats whats supposed to happen.
your supposed to have discharge,
because your obviously going to be horny and wet.
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Communication is key before, during and after this sexual act. You are not supposed to bleed at all. If you do it's because he's being too rough and doesn't know what he is doing.
It's your job to tell him exactly what to do and what you like. Most guys make the mistake of ramming their finger up the vaginal canal thinking that's what fingering is. The girl then feels pain as she isn't lubricated and can and will bleed.
If you've heard stories from friends about bleeding thgis is why and how it usually happens. As you know all fingering really mean is masturbation done by your partner rather than yourself. Most people focus on clitoral stimulation but some girls find that too intense.
You know your body best so you need to guide your partner through this the first time and make sure he understands what you are not comfortable with and not to be too rough or ram his fingers up your vagina and hurt you.
As long as you communicate with him about this you'll be fine and will not bleed or feel uncomfortable. The bottom line is teenage boys have no clue (none at all) about female anatomy and what they're doing. You've got to educate him to avoid an embarassing scenario or in your case pain.
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i highly doubt you'll bleed. but i just wanna give you a heads up that it kinda hurts but not a lot but it shouult really hurt you because you use tampons. if he fingers you when you have discharge it won't really matter because while hes fingering you theres going to be secretions..well good luckkk
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If he goes in a little too far, there's a high possibility that you will bleed. If you do have discharge, he could always stop, but really, it's up to both of you.
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