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How to make it work
19/F
It's almost the summer, and I just realized that I'm not going to see my boyfriend for at least three and a half months. I'll be able to talk to him on the phone, but we'll be really far away from each other (I'm going to be in the middle of the woods).
Our relationship has been great, we're moving in together in the fall, and we're really in love with each other.
Does anyone who has been in a similar situation have any advice on how to make it work?
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Compared to me... your the luckiest girl in the world... i'm 16/f... my bf is in the army and leaves in two months and is gone for at least a year... so it pretty much sucks... but I've been with him for a very long time now... and when he goes to training for three or four months at a time... I just wrote him letters because he couldn't call... So if I were you i'd enjoy the fact that he is able to call you a lot... and yes... still write him cute letters... I'm sure he'll like that. Hope I helped... you can write me if you have anything else! =)
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In currently long distance with my boyfriend & to make it work, we talk on the phone a lotttt or at least once a day just to say goodnight & i love you. we have a journal that we send back and forth with all kinds of lovey dovey things and just send each other random things. you really have to trust each other and pick yor battles... don't fight over little things. <3
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if its that serious that you are gonna be moving in together, i wouldn't worry about it. keep in touch and call him and write cute letters/ send care packages or something to him. never question himn about his loyalty unless you have strong rason to, as this is a weak point in many relationships. good luck :)
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If you guys really love each other, you'll make it work. Why would things go wrong? If you both trust each other you'll be fine. I know that not seeing each other for three months is horrible and way too long, but you will still get to talk to each other. I think your relationship with him will work out. Just don't put bad thoughts in your head and not seeing him for a while will make you miss and love each other more.
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