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Last Update: March 16, 2007
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19/F

It's almost the summer, and I just realized that I'm not going to see my boyfriend for at least three and a half months. I'll be able to talk to him on the phone, but we'll be really far away from each other (I'm going to be in the middle of the woods).

Our relationship has been great, we're moving in together in the fall, and we're really in love with each other.

Does anyone who has been in a similar situation have any advice on how to make it work? (link)
Compared to me... your the luckiest girl in the world... i'm 16/f... my bf is in the army and leaves in two months and is gone for at least a year... so it pretty much sucks... but I've been with him for a very long time now... and when he goes to training for three or four months at a time... I just wrote him letters because he couldn't call... So if I were you i'd enjoy the fact that he is able to call you a lot... and yes... still write him cute letters... I'm sure he'll like that. Hope I helped... you can write me if you have anything else! =)


me and boyfriend really love each other. but i have a hard time letting him hang out with his boys. it really doesn't bother me as bad as i make it out to be, but i don't have that many friends to hang out with. all my friends either have kids or stuck up there boyfriends ass, so if i'm not with him i have no one else to chill with. i'm not the type of girl that diches her friends for her boyfriend, so i know it ain't me why i don't have friends.
i have told my boyfriend this and he understands it.
but he wants to stay at his boy's house tonight and it bothers me, & when i get outta school i'm suppose to get him and his friend from there, then later on tomorrow night me and my boyfriend are going to the movies and i'm stayin with him, and saturday i have to go back and scoop his boy up so they can chill on saturday, his boy his leaving for Youth Challange.
i really dislike that i'm a selfish person and i don't know what i should do about this crap (link)
I am the EXACT same way... except usually me and my bf end up fighting cuz he's with his friends... it gets really bad sometimes... and it's not that i'm jealous of his friends... it's just that it bothers me because I don't know... what they are doing... know what I mean?... that probably sounds pathetic on my part... but i completely understand where you are coming from... I've been trying to work on it... and i've talked to him about it... But right now all I am doing is just hanging out with my friends when he is with his... that's all I got for you... sorry!


i'm a girl who just turn 13 and i want to know what sex feels like,i've been fingered by my boyfriend and everything but i'm just wondering what sex actually feels like. (link)
Okay... I'm sure your sick of hearing that your too young and everything... cuz I'm only a few years older than you... and I've heard the same things... I dont regret it, but i think that's cuz i'm still with the guy that took my virginity... but think about how long you are going to be with this guy... and I know your going to say forever! because your in love and everything... but believe me... there will be plenty of other boys... just wait awhile... you won't regret waiting... but you probably will regret giving it up too soon...


I'm planning on having sex for the first time very soon.I am very hairy "down there" so should I shave ? I have shaved it before but it was really irratated and pinchy and itchy. What should I do ? Also I don't wanna be hairy like that.HELP !!!
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I would definetly shave.... but it's completly up to you and your partner... I always shave... but I read the other advise that you've received and i think that nair is a good idea... I'll have to try it...


So I'm going on the pill.
For the sole-reason taht it's supposed to help with acne. (I don't have acne,but I get the odd pimple)

So I was wondering, should i tell my boyfriend when I start it?
I mean we haven't had sex,but he'd be interested in knowing though,right?
Or is it ny of his buisness? (link)
Honestly... it just depends on if you are ready to have sex or not... I don't know your bf... so i can't say that he'll want sex after that... but there is a chance that he mite... and that'll give him a reason to try talking you into it... if your not ready for sex... I wouldn't tell him right away.


right so i have been hangning out with this kid alot, and hes a lot older than me but he is going really slowly..... anywho, hes held my hand and we almost kissed, so i know he likes me...so after we hang out, i know it'll happen, where would he liked to be touched like if we are wwatching a movie in my basement? i know the obvi, package, but just like his chest or something.. (link)
okay... first... if you don't mind me asking... how old is he? cuz i'm dating someone a little older also... and I've had to go through the same things... but eventually I figured some of them out... it just depends on the age...


hi im to embarrassed to moan during sex and i feel like im bad at it?


what do i do to overcome this fear?

19/f (link)
I'm 16/f... I had the same problem... but eventually I tried it and afterwards my boyfriend said that it was way sexy... i've been doing it ever since... even tho i feel kinda stupid when I do... I do it because I know he likes it...




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