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moaining..
hi im to embarrassed to moan during sex and i feel like im bad at it?
what do i do to overcome this fear?
19/f
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Honestly, I don't think there is a way to be "bad" at moaning. It doesn't really matter what you sound like, everyone sounds different. The point of it is, is to let who ever your having sex with know that it feels really good. Men love when a girl moans because it makes him feel like he accomplished something, and proud of himself. So, don't sweat it. :]
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Trust me, guys enjoy that sort of thing. Once whatever it is that is happening continues, you probably won't be able to control that kind of thing. Just know that by hearing that, guys know what they are doing is right and that it gives them a confidence boost because they know you enjoy it!
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Try not to think about it- being too concerned about how you sound during sex can take the fun out of it. And I'm sure that when you do have sex, your boyfriend won't mind your moaning at all, no matter what (in fact, it'll be a turn on). If you do find yourself thinking about it, just try to focus on the moment and on just enjoying sex. If it helps, just close your eyes and focus on you and your feelings..block out all other thoughts and just be in the moment.
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I'm 16/f... I had the same problem... but eventually I tried it and afterwards my boyfriend said that it was way sexy... i've been doing it ever since... even tho i feel kinda stupid when I do... I do it because I know he likes it...
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The best thing to do is to close your eyes and relax. Try not to think about it and just let it come naturally. The less you stress about it, the better it will feel and the more you'll want to moan. You could even put a pillow over your head so you can be as loud as you want. Don't worry about how your moan sounds. Any moan will make your partner pleased with himself.
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Ask him if he thinks its hot!
I never used to moan but my boyfriend started too and I thought it was hot!
Your partner may not think you enjoy sex if you don't moan, you don't have to but it sort of gets you into the mood!
Don't be embarrased.... it's normal hun!
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just know that your guy will love it if you moan. they find it sexy. there is no bad way to moan (that i know of). just go for it, it'll be a pleasant surprise for your guy.
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