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Ex- best friends are destroying my reputation
Hi, I was really friendly with two girls from my class. I could do anything for them. I treated them like my sisters. But then one day because of a girl in opur class who was really close to my friends interfeared in our friendship and my friends broke up with me. I tried speaking to them but they just used abusive language and did not even talk. Then I avoided them and they too did the same. Soon I became friendly with all the popular girls of our class (which they wanted to so much when we were friends) and I made abvoyfriend who is one of the most popular guys in skool (he's the football team captain and everyone used to fantasize about him) and I also became the Art and Craft Club president. Now my Ex-best friends are so jealous they are tellin people stuff about me and i had a fight with three girls from school because of them. Talking is of no use because they are not ready to do so. I feel like murdering them but that's not possible. Am hurt. Help.
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Ignore the rumors. They're just jealous & they've got every reason to be. Ignore them & go on with life. They're not worth worrying about or getting mad over.
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Well first I would tell your friends that these girls you were friends with are trying to spread rumors about you that aren't true. Next, since you cant do anything to stop them, like yell at them or talk to them about it calmly, your best bet is to just move on. People who are ruined by what others say about them, take things far too seriously. So what if they call you a whore, say you have diseases, or whatever rude lies they are making up? Is it true? No, so why should it bug you. Girls that make up rumors that aren't true are obviously jealous and everyone will see that. Just act like it doesn't bug you. Trust me, it will work. I have had so many people talk shit behind my back. It is better to ignore it and live your life, then to constantly be defending this "image" and "reputation". Be you, and everyone will see what kind of lies these girls are spreading. You will see that when you don't make a big deal about what they're saying that it will stop. They are trying to intimidate and hurt you, and it continues because they see it bugs you. Life is all about the reality that there will always be people that dont like you, there will always be people that lie and talk bad about you, and there will always be people that will do anything to make you feel like crap. But learn to forget them. Ignore their comments and lies and people will see them for who they are. Be a celebrity. By that, I mean act like the way stars do when rumors and gossip go on about them. The celebrities that freak out and make a huge scene about all the lies and rumors and photographers are the ones that always get talked about, because they are adding more fire to the flame by their obnoxious reactions. You will notice the celebrities that don't make a big deal and ignore all the tabloids you don't hear about as much. So trust me hun, move on and ignore them. People will notice how ridiculously immature they really are when their entire lives revolve around trashing you, and when you can look at them and laugh and say, "Talk all you want because your lies don't bother me at all." Best of luck!
~Sherah
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talk to your new friends.. tell them whats going on, and if your x friends say anything to her, its not true.. tell your guy this too, tell everyone that you can, before they can get to them. and tell the ppl that they already told that they are lying, and believe that they want.. && im glad to here that you moved on and got better friends && a boy!.. congrats on that... hope i helped!<3
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