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mom's boyfriend my mom has been seeing her boyfriend for about 2 years now
i love him with all my heart
and he is like the father i never had
well they don't live with each other yet
an i really wish they did
so i called him[ my mom know i called him ] and told him
how i think it would make my mom very happy and less stressed if he moved in or they talk about buying a house and moving in with each other
well he thought for some weird reason
something was wrong with me just because i had a major break down the same day about how i think i am fat and i hate my body but that isnt why i wanted to call him.
anyway he is coming over today to talk to me
he thinks i need someone to talk to
which i dont because i already talked to my mom
and i am in the best mood now
so when he comes what should i say and do?
i mean i thought i explained myself perfectly on the phone
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I think that you should just tell him that you don't need to talk. That you talk to your mom about things when they are needed to be talked about. Tell him that you just really think that he's a great guy and like a father to you and you thought the idea of him moving in was an excellent idea. Don't lie about anything there is no need to. Tell him your that being a teen is stressful and that just because you had one breakdown doesn't mean that you need someone to talk to :]
but say it in a nice way I wasn't trying to have it sounds rude lol.
hope that i help :] ]
Just say that you talked to your mom and if he really wants to know tell him parts not all but if he want to be that suportive to his girlfriends daughter thats really really GREAT!!! ]
just tell him that you talked to your mom about everything and your in the best mood now. thats pretty much it =]
hope i helped.
ohHh && if he keeps pushing the issue then change the topic or just tell him that your fine and if you dont want to talk about it... or something like that =] ]
tell him thanks for the offer but you already talked to you mom about everything but you appreciate the offer.hope i helped ]
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