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he's totally different now!
last summer i met this guy at camp, and he was really cool and really cute. He told me he liked me, and i started to like him. well, we live in different states, so we only talked on myspace. I stopped liking him pretty much the week after camp. well, eventually we stopped talking and i guess he deleted me from his friends. we haven't talked in over 3 months now. Well, last night, i got a friend request and a message from him. He is COMPLETELY different and i'm not sure if i want to go back to being friends. He has a girlfriend, so he's def. not trying to get me to like him again.. but idk what to do. Should i talk to him?
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okay well, you two definatly can't pick up from where you left off if you know what i mean, but there is absolutly no reason you shouldn't be friends with him again. he most likely just deleted you from his friends because he was upset you didn't talk anymore. i think you should definatly give him a chance as a friend.
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I think it's best to have a reality check at this point, hun.
~ He has a girlfriend
~ He lives out of state
~ He deleted you
~ He added you again
~ You lost touch with him
What does that tell us?
It tells us that there's really not much of a chance you guys could pick things up where you left off to like each other on the same levels again. And even if he does ask you out online... if he dumps his other girlfriend... then you should say no because you'll never see each other! You'll find other guys that you like at new schools, neighborhoods etc. and you won't wanna stay with him. Things change, personalities change, and so do looks. Who knows? If his personality changed since he added you and likes you again he could be an unpredictable jerk now. You really need to be in person to get along well.
Sorry if I came off rude, but you need to hear it.
~ Lauren
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It doesnt hurt to be his friend. Just as long as you have your head in the right place. You know that you are only going to be his friend. AND he lives in a different state anyways so you really dont have anything to worry bout.
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