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Friend doing drugs
I'm not sure what to do. My friend smokes pot and I know that it's none of my business, but she's ruining her life. She plays sports, and can't always breathe very well because she has all that crap in her system. I can't stand to see her suffer anymore. And when she gets high it's really scary. I don't know what to do anymore... it's been going on for a year and a half now. She's my best friend and I can't lose her. But if I tell someone, she'd probably get mad. What do I do?
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Tell her you can't sit by and watch her smoke pot because she isn't playing sports as well anymore. Your friend is smoking pot which in some staes is legal with a doctors note. She's not snorting coke. If you don't like what your friend is doing get a new friend who doesn't smoke pot. Usually when people get high on pot they get silly, stupid and eat a lot, not scary.
I don't think you should be a rat cause like you said it's not your business and she will be really mad at you. Don't expect her to stop smoking pot to save your friendship. Just walk away on good terms.
smoking pot cost money and maybe one day she'll run out of money for pot. There is no such thing at pot withdrawl. Coke and heroin cause physical addiction.
I don't think your friend is "suffering." crystal meth addicts suffer, crack addicts suffer, heroin users suffer. Not only do they suffer they get ugly. Pot smokers just get stupid,forgetful, and lazy. Don't expect your friend to gradute from Harvard.
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the first thing you need to do is talk to her about it and how you are really concerned about her. tell her that you are too afraid to lose her and can't stand the way she is treating her body.
i understand how you feel because my friend is doing the same thing. you just need to sit down with her and let it all out. you might cry but then she'll know ho wyou really feel
good luck :]
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if i were you, i wouldnt tell her parents, because then you probably would lose her.
byt have you really talked to her about it?
and if there are other people that are concerened too, maybe all of you could talk to her.
like an intervention.
if it really gets alot worse, like she wont listen to anyone, then tell her parents.
but only do that as a last resort.
and do not tell the someone at your school,
[teacher or counselor]
because that could just end horribly.
hope i helped.
tell me how it goes.<3
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tell her parents. help her now before she starts doing more serouis stuff. yes she'll get mad but once she realizes later on when she gets help, that your really were trying to help her. you should tell an adult.
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