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Hurts and Cramps?
A couple days ago I tried having sex with my boyfriend with my legs up on his shoulders so he could get deeper and hit my 'g spot' and stuff. well wen he did it, it hurt my lower abdomen, my lower back, and my hips. it was like a really weird cramping feeling. It almost felt like his penis was poking up into my stomach and it kinda made me feel like I was gonna throw up. Is there anything wrong? and is there any way i can get more pleasure besides that because it for sure does not feel too great like that. thank you !
~amandaaaa*
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This can happen to anyone. The reason it is painful is probably because you aren't used to that position and have not experienced it before. First of all, explain that to him and then he can find a position to please both you and him as well. If not, atleast he can know to take it easier and not go as deep as before.
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If it's painful, it probably means that he's penetrating to far. I've had a similar problem. Instead of putting your legs up on his shoulder, just wrap your legs around his waist and lift from there. It's basically the same thing, but he won't be pentrating as far. Let me know if it works out for you!
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It seems to me that he penetrated too deeply. Not all positions work well for all couples. This is one that you probably won't be able to do pleasurably.
There are other ways to try to reach the G-spot. One would be for you to lie down on your back and prop yourself up on some pillows, to raise your hips. It also might work if he lies down on his back and you straddle him, sitting up on your knees - this one may be very exciting for your boyfriend, too, as he gets to lie back and watch you.
Experiment with subtle differences, and you will eventually find the perfect position. If it hurts, then don't do it; there are plenty of options available.
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