Question Posted Thursday February 22 2007, 1:32 am
ok so i'm 13 almost 14 and my friend told me i need to get a vibrator or a dildp or something and i thought about it but how can i get one without my mom finding out and where????
solidadvice4teens answered Thursday February 22 2007, 5:24 am: You need to be 18 to enter an adult novelty store where you can purchase one. Do you know anyone who is 18 or over that you can trust to purchase you one? A sibling or older friend may be able to help you here.
Trust me, asking someone you trust won't be that embarassing as they have experimented with masturbation too. The only other thing I can recommend to you is to purchase a unit used for back massage from any department store as it will do the trick for clitoral stimulation.
Also stores such as Spencer's Gifts sell "personal massagers" that can be used for masturbation. As hard as it may be to do you can always approach your mother about this. She will understand fully about it and how embarassing it may be for you to ask her.
She was your age once and most parents would rather their kids masturbate than have sex. She may in fact think you are very reponsible for wanting to release sexual tensions and feelings in this manner rather than have sex now with your boyfriend or random guy. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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