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what is getting fingered supposed to feel like
Okay, so I got fingered for my first time.
Problem is, I didn't even feel it.
Like I mean, you know how when you put in a tampon, you aren't supposed to feel it?
Well are you supposed to feel getting fingered?
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i guess your supposed to feel it ?
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Yes, you are supposed to feel it when being fingered. You should have felt warm, wet and a tingling sensation and perhaps orgasm as well. The problem is your boyfriend has no idea when it comes to female anatomy where and how to touch your private parts when doing this to you.
What you need to do is guide your boyfriend here when he tries this with you again and show him where he should be touching, rubbing etc and that way things will work out better.
You have to communicate with him about this or he's going to be totally clueless poking and prodding around your vagina wondering why you aren't enjoying it.
You have to show him what feels good to you. Generally, you'll have a good sense what feels good from your own sexual exploration and or masturbation.
Don't be embarassed to tell him either that he's doing it all wrong when he is in the process of doing it wrong. You'll just be wasting your time and sitting there frustrated at him when you are supposed to be feeling good.
Most people put the emphasis on clitoral stimulation here but not always. This could be a reason you didn't feel anything then again some girls find such stimulation too strong or do not feel anything from it. Keep talking to your boyfriend and guide him until you learn what is pleasurable for you and a comfortable situation for both of you.
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I think that its because you were wet and you didnt feel it go it since your body was ready for it. when you put in a tampon, i dont know about you, but i'm not one bit excited for that. you could have him use more than one finger or guide him to where you will feel it. <3
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you ARE suppose to feel it ..probably you where so mmm idk the word cause i don't speak english very well sorry ..mmm exited??..anyway when you get so mmm its a word lke horny lol it gets bigger the place when you get fingered it dilates ,,so probably that's why you didn't feel it and when you use tampons its like your not feeling pleasure before so the area is smaller ...or maybe he just did it wrong ? i dkn if you geet y idea but it think it should be that ..maybe he has to try with another finger? hope you understood what i tried to say sorry =(
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