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my bff had sex at 10
my bff just told me she had sex for her first time when she was 10 and shes still havin sex alot shes only 13 she says not to tell anyone or else she'll be grounded for life
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I agree that your friend is in way, way over her head here and something bad could happen with pregnancy (as she develops) or being taken severely advantage of.
You learned really early in life that there are some secrets you have or those you know that you simply do not keep because someone can get hurt. This is one you need to tell an adult you trust about.
If your friend gets upset don't worry as in the end she will learn that you did the best thing for her and were a true friend. My only concern here is whether or not she's full of BS and making things up. I hope that that could be the case. You know her better than I do so you can guage.
Once you tell an adult this secret breathe a ssigh of relief and let the adults deal with it on their own. Let the chips fall where they may but know that by doing the right thing and telling an adult may save your friend a lot of bad experiences and misery later on.
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Isn't there a law about how old you can do that stuff? or no. I don't know, maybe not. Anyways, if I were you, I'd tell. Pretend like it wasn't on purpose. Be on the phone with her, & be in the same room as your mom or dad or someone. & then be like.. "So wait.. ___ you had sex with who?" & then your mom will be like.. say whattt. & stuff. She may not like you for it. But, I personally think its for her own good. Shes too young for that stuff. & really doesn't know what shes getting herself into.
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wow thats not good....but if shes got to hide it then she knows she shouldnt be doing it and she does have free will...she needs to quit while shes ahead but you just cant tell some people...you can either tell because shes really awfully young or keep your mouth shut and just let her be..because shes going to do what shes going to do even if its not in her best interest
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Well, it's too bad that she has made this life decision for herself, but it is her choice to make. I wouldn't tell anyone, unless she is in a harmful situation. She has confided this bit of information in you, and that is something you should respect.
As her friend, you need to try to ensure that she is educated on the prevention of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) and pregnancy.
The link below gives information about preventing STDs. She should always be sure a condom is used. Not only does it protect against pregnancy, but it is her ONLY protection against STDs. She should also consider getting on birth control of some sort AS WELL as ALWAYS using condoms. It is always better to be safe than sorry.
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